Due to having kids, and gaining some health issues with them. I have gained a lot of weight. Well someone in my church has taken to sending me dieting advice, and HCG pill ads and the such. I have lymphademia cause of a botched c section. I gained weight with my kids on top of that so yeah I am puffy and fat BUT my husband likes me the way I am. Most of the insane diets they keep sending me would really mess with my other health issues. It's not like I can work out cause all the movement causes more swelling. Husband walked in on me as I was reading yet another "helpful" email in tears. The thing is I have never once mentioned I need or want to lose weight. So this is just them out of the blue sending this stuff. He goes baby send it to them and all their kids, or better yet send them some makeup advice, cause they sure are ugly. I know he is trying to help, but really I don't wanna be mean. What do I do? The inside me wants to rage and go crazy on them, but I know I will sit here and think of witty things to say and never say a one.