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For Those Who Have Lost....

Posted by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:43 AM
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A mother who has passed away is it still rough on you?Are the days somewhat ok for you?Or the days are hard to deal with her being gone?For me I cry alot especially lately.I was watching some move last night and all i could do is just cry and wish i could say goodbye to her the right way....Last time i dramn her she was very upset with me and i havent dramn her since than....How do you cope?I cant seem to get over the guilt and the anger with myself and i am just pissed basically.I will never get her back and she was the only decent grandmother to my kids....She was always there to listen to me and she gave me some kind of guidance....I am in need of some kind of guidance now a days with my life and how it is going and she isnt here to give me opionions or a hug :( I am sorry just having a moment i guess

Posted by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 1:43 AM
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wicked_tink
by goofy goober on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:09 AM

BUMP!

wicked_tink
by goofy goober on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:09 AM

BUMP!

milagro07
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:12 AM

I lost my mother in January,ans No it hasn't gotten easier,Sometimes I feel as if im still in a state of denial.I am having a baby in a week and it hurts me that she wont be here to hold her like she was for my first!

Its.me.Sam.
by Silver Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 2:58 AM

i have lost my mom.
just know that you'll never get 'over' it...you get through it...and you learn to live life without her.
try to remember that no mother would want her baby to feel so sad and angry and empty.  she would want you to be happy and honor her by being the very best you can... and that means moving on from this loss.  not forgetting her... not forgetting the hurt... just coping and finding a way to use this loss to make yourself a better person..a more compassionate and empathetic person.
you're gonna be ok. :) 

CrystalPystol
by Ms. Hotwheels on Jul. 16, 2012 at 5:09 AM
Hugs
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ButterflyLove86
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 5:21 AM

My mom passed away when I was 17, just before I graduated high school.

It's still rough sometimes and I have my hard days, but I know she wouldn't want me to break down in front of my kids.  I wish she was here all the time, for guidance, help, and of course her hugs!  But then I just think of how proud she'd be of me now!

Same to you.  I bet your mom is proud of you, no matter what. Just remember that. (:

*hugs*

PinkyPan
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 5:44 AM

Hugs Tink!

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