ETA since obviously I meant except in case of abuse or anything illegal or dangerous. Duh.
ETA 2. No marriage isn't Santa clause. I wonder if people are being purposely obtuse? Anyway I'm merely implying that the vows I took, I took them seriously. They aren't just words on a piece of paper. Dh and I are in this for the long haul. Through the good and bad, sickness and health...sound familiar? And on another topic that someone decided to bring up...never did I say I was against premarital sex so yes I had a child out of wedlock. Wahoo. What's your point? I don't see that as being immoral, sounds like you're the one with issues. Obviously is dh hit me, I'd have his balls. If he decided to become a drug addict, I'd help him get help. If he decided to rob a bank, I'd turn him in. However knowing him, the only addiction he'd have is to skyrim.
And I'm not saying I'm better than anyone else.