I have a 13 year old daughter that was "dating" this boy. That meant they hung out @ my house with supervision. They broke up back around Easter time of her own choice. But they continued to hang out with supervision. I found out she kissed him in school and i kinda put the breaks on. they remained friends but mostly via Facebook which i was monitoring without her knowing. All was going well until a couple of weeks ago. I noticed she was talking to him non stop pretty much. I gave her the advice that she needed to back off a bit. That it was too much and she was to young to be wrapped up all the time with one boy. The boy also comes with a ton of baggage. Stuff that at 13 he should not be dealing with and my dd should not as well. He's gay. He hasn't come totally out of the closet or really fully admitted it to himself because he's struggling with it. He seems to think that if he clings on to my dd than it must mean he's not gay. He also has a ton of family issues that go really deep. well dd didn't listen to my advice so I had it went from advice to she had to slow it down and not talk to him very much. He left the country on the 7th of this month with no set date to come back. There has been some talk that in 8 months he might come back. Well she didn't listen again and this time i found part of a conversation that was at least NC17 if not worse. He's lucky he's in another country. Well i decided she was not to talk to him at all under any circumstances for at least 2 weeks. That at the end of 2 weeks we would discuss it. I didn't want her moping around the house with nothing to do but think about this boy so I gave her limited access to FB so that she could still make plans to hang out with her friends and enjoy the summer. She had spent too much time ignoring the friends and only talking to him. So I blocked him on FB. I guess she thought i was stupid because she unblocked him. so now I have no choice but to ground her totally. No facebook, no phone and she's spending all of her time moping around the house doing nothing but thinking about him. And of course she hates me. She's in love with him and I don't understand what its like I'm horrible and I want her to be miserable. I just want to reverse time and make her little again. If its this hard at 13 i can only imagine was 16 and 17 are going to be like.