Did I really say something that horrible to my boyfriends dd?
My boyfriends daughter (7years) is really terrified of spiders she can spot one anywhere and she RUNS screaming. One day when we were all in the car she was talking about wanting a pet taranchula. I asked (not in any kind of tone) You want a taranchula and your afraid of spiders?
Apparently I said something wrong and its been a fight since. He thinks that I be Little her and it was rude for me to ask her that. Maybe it was the way I worded the question? I honestly don't know what I said wrong. Tips advice