If you were not happy about getting pregnant did you want people to congratulate you?
I didn't expect to get my ass rimmed by people I didn't even know about how babies are a blessing blah blah blah and how I'm a bad friend. Please! I have two sons. My babies are the best thing that ever happened to me and I'm very blessed with not just one but two. However I wasn't happy when I found out I was preggo the second time. I was on bc for a reason and it failed me. I was certain I had to give up school everything. I also had morning sickness from hell and I was just seriously unhappy. Those first couple months after I told people the last thing I wanted to hear was congrats. But I came around. And I'm really happy for the people that were just there to listen not spew more baby stuff at me.
So am I a bad friend? I just want to support her and if this isn't what she wants then I support whatever.