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im so screwed and don't know what to do...no food and 3 kids*UPDATE IN MY POST IN CAPS*

Posted by on Jul. 27, 2012 at 11:59 AM
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so my other half left a few hours ago, he lost his job and doesn't want us around him anymore :( , i have 1.17 to my name right now, i got my electric disconnect notice today and they will be here on the 30th shut it off, i haven't gotten approved for fs yet it's in the works, i hve been to the church for food last week but i have to wait another week to go back, and theyonly gave me food to last 3 days, i have no vehichle and i live in the country, i can't get any friends to bring me food because i live too far out nd they would need gas money, i have a box of mac and cheese and a lb of hamburger meat i plan on making for dinner, my a/c is broken so it's really hot, im at a total loss because he has been telling me he doesn't want us to be around anymore for about a week now, he said life would be easier if we were gone an top of that i'm 13 weks pregnant, they are all his kids. I have no support system and im scared. I have already pawnd my labtop which i will loose in a few days but my kids are more important...I JUST WANTED TO SAY TY FOR ALL THE WORDS OF WISDOME, AND HELP, A LOT OF THE LADIES HAVE HELPED AND IT I AM GREATLY GREATLY THANKFUL, I HAVE CALLED ALL THE PLACES JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR MONDAY NOW. I DON'T WANT TOACCEPT ANYMORE HELP THOUGH BECAUSE SOMEBODY ELSE MAY NEED SOME OF YOU AWESOME LADIES IN THE FUTURE, IF YOU WOULD LIKE MY NUMBER PM ME AND I CAN GIVE THAT TO YOU FOR EVERYBODY TOCHECK UP IF YOU WOULD LIKE, I DON'T WANT TO ANNOUNCE WHAT ALL WAS GIVEN JUST BECAUSE ITS PRIVATE AND IF THE LADIES WANT TO TELL YOU THATS FINE, I DID HOWEVER GETMY PHONE PAID FOR 5 DAYS AND ANOTHER HAS AGREED TO PAY ANOTHER 5 FOR ME. TY LADIES FOR EVERYTHING GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!
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strictmomhere
by Platinum Member on Jul. 27, 2012 at 1:58 PM
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You are so kind God bless you

Quoting JvilleMom125:

I'm in jacksonville. Pm me. I am close so I will bring you some stuff. Or u can come stay with me until you get enough money to get your power back on.



Quoting courtneycra:

outisde of ocala florida





Quoting krisandjakesmom:

Where do you live?
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greenie63
by Nancy on Jul. 27, 2012 at 1:59 PM

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought it was an unrealistic idea. I am willing to help but giving advice to hunt and trap food? There are other ways before resorting to something that isn't putting herself and her children at risk. 

Quoting prdmomnarmywife:

Trapping is illegal without a trappers lliscense . She could face federal prison for either . It may be dumb but it's true .


Quoting Kaya529:

Mostly your wrong because she said she did not have a gun so I told her to make traps. No gunfire involved.



Another reason you are wrong is that taking from your neighbor is not right. Hunting, fishing, and foraging does not involve harming other people.



The law is wrong. It is rediculous to allow people to hunt for sport just cause they have a liscence but arrest someone for putting food on their plate.




Quoting Tea4Tas:




Quoting Kaya529:

So what you are saying is if I am in that situation my children and I should be more worried about the law and just deal with starving? I would just do it illegally if that is what I needed to do.



Quoting Tea4Tas:







Quoting Kaya529:

Time to figure out how to hunt, fish, and forage.

For fishing all you need is a tree branch, string, hook, and worm.

There are plenty of websites that will show you what you can get in your area.

Hunting is a little harder. Do you have a gun? You can also look up how to make traps for small game. You can also learn how to gut it on the web.



Hunting with no license? In the summer? What is legal to shoot this time of year?




I checked. She needs to take a hunter safety course. pay out $48 for a license (for fishing AND hunting) THEN she would need to live in the far Southern part of Florida-AND then she can hunt ONLY using a bow and arrow or a cross bow. Do you think she has one of those lying around? Each deer would cost her another $5 and she would need to know how to bucher it.




Because you can't just go out in the woods and freaking SHOOT things-you need to be licensed! And shoot only what is in season!



Then you are a fool. You go to JAIL for hunting off season. And the gunfire would be the give away.



Why doesn't she just steal food or burglarize her neighbors since that would be a sure thing, and not require her to go hunting. See problem solved.



Breaking the law by stealing and breaking the law by hunting out of season with no license are the same things!



greenie63
by Nancy on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:00 PM

I sent her a message, I'm waiting to see if she wants me to put the money on her phone or green dot account. I'll do either one. 

Quoting Shadow_Walker:

op.. I believe I saw at least two women other than myself willing to help with your phone. Please msg us your phone number so we can add it to your account


Hectictracy
by on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:02 PM
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wish I could help. To the ladies that are helping her, you are awesome! :-)
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Ireallydontcare
by Bronze Member on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:04 PM

I just saw that. :) I don't live in Florida, but would be willing to mail some of my extras. if you are interested, PM your address, and I will get you some food. I won't let kids and a pregnant momma go hungry,

My husband lost his job recently and we are about to be struggling really bad. However, he is still HERE. We will be okay and you will too OP. I can send you some stuff. Let me know.

Quoting Shadow_Walker:

she lives outside ocala florida

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

Where do you live? I have extra of some things that I can give to you. I live in the Boone Docks too. I know how that is.




Shadow_Walker
by on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:04 PM
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I sent her one too. I can't send anything to her greendot (no credit card) but I can buy a boost card from the store around the corner

Quoting greenie63:

I sent her a message, I'm waiting to see if she wants me to put the money on her phone or green dot account. I'll do either one. 

Quoting Shadow_Walker:

op.. I believe I saw at least two women other than myself willing to help with your phone. Please msg us your phone number so we can add it to your account


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shadenn766
by Silver Member on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:06 PM

call the electric company make arrangements on the bill...see if you can make arrangements with the phone co. as well...

dial 211 most states this service...its a helpline

contact the dept of human services...maybe they have emergency food stamps that you can apply for...

visit your local food bank call salvation army and local churches maybe tehy can deliver some food to you seeing that you dont have transportation...

good luck

 

Tea4Tas
by Ruby Member on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:07 PM


Quoting Kaya529:

Mostly your wrong because she said she did not have a gun so I told her to make traps. No gunfire involved.

Another reason you are wrong is that taking from your neighbor is not right. Hunting, fishing, and foraging does not involve harming other people.

The law is wrong. It is rediculous to allow people to hunt for sport just cause they have a liscence but arrest someone for putting food on their plate.


 

I think the law is wrong is not an affirmitive defense when you are arrested and jailed.

You need licenses to trap, and you  need to take care to not trap domestic animals..because how is killing someone's cat or dog acceptable?

And even with a gun-it is NOT HUNTIN G season. What part of wildlife management so we don't kill off entire species do you NOTY understand? Remember the passenger pigeons? Of course you don't THEY WERE WIPED out by people like YOU who felt their right to hunt out weighed the efforts of the government to SAVE entire species from extinction.

And licensing is important.  You wouldn't dream of allowing her to drive a car with no license, but you suggest she tramp off into the woods with a gun and NO TRAINING? Seriously?

OFF season so that any other people there would NOT be wearing hunter orange-nor be expecting her in the woods with a rifle?

jridgill
by Jennifer on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:11 PM
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I'm sorry. I don't help people with cash assistance online. Too many fakes. I do hope things get better for you. I know you can get emergency food stamps if needed.
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Kaya529
by Bronze Member on Jul. 27, 2012 at 2:12 PM
Would still risk it if it came to feeding myself and Ds or starving.

My great grandmother risked more then that to care for my grandmother and her sisters during World War 2 in Italy.


Quoting prdmomnarmywife:

Trapping is illegal without a trappers lliscense . She could face federal prison for either . It may be dumb but it's true .




Quoting Kaya529:

Mostly your wrong because she said she did not have a gun so I told her to make traps. No gunfire involved.





Another reason you are wrong is that taking from your neighbor is not right. Hunting, fishing, and foraging does not involve harming other people.





The law is wrong. It is rediculous to allow people to hunt for sport just cause they have a liscence but arrest someone for putting food on their plate.






Quoting Tea4Tas:





Quoting Kaya529:

So what you are saying is if I am in that situation my children and I should be more worried about the law and just deal with starving? I would just do it illegally if that is what I needed to do.




Quoting Tea4Tas:




 





Quoting Kaya529:

Time to figure out how to hunt, fish, and forage.

For fishing all you need is a tree branch, string, hook, and worm.

There are plenty of websites that will show you what you can get in your area.

Hunting is a little harder. Do you have a gun? You can also look up how to make traps for small game. You can also learn how to gut it on the web.




Hunting with no license? In the summer? What is legal to shoot this time of year?





I checked. She needs to take a hunter safety course. pay out $48 for a license (for fishing AND hunting) THEN she would need to live in the far Southern part of Florida-AND then she can hunt ONLY using a bow and arrow or a cross bow. Do you think she has one of those lying around? Each deer would cost her another $5 and she would need to know how to bucher it.





Because you can't just go out in the woods and freaking SHOOT things-you need to be licensed! And shoot only what is in season!




Then you are a fool. You go to JAIL for hunting off season. And the gunfire would be the give away.




Why doesn't she just steal food or burglarize her neighbors since that would be a sure thing, and not require her to go hunting. See problem solved.




Breaking the law by stealing and breaking the law by hunting out of season with no license are the same things!


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