Such a huge reliefe! dd knows the truth! piog
Dh has been raising dd since she was 2 weeks old. he is daddy to her. but i always intended on telling dd about bio dad. I started a private group on facebook for her bio family to see photos weekly updates the whole shabang! dh agreed since they wanted more involvement to allow a second chance. but no visits or calls at the time. up till today she didnt know about bio dad. she was asking about how she was born and where daddy was. i told her "you are a lucky princess, daddy chose to stay and be your daddy when he chose to stay with mommy. I met daddy after i had you hunny." then the big words " you have a bio daddy and a step daddy, both love you very much, but step daddy is the one who cares for you and loves you, who plays with you and buys anything you need. bio daddy loves you but decided a long time ago that it was best for step daddy to continue to raise you". she looked at me and said "mommy i know, i am very loved. do i have to share grandma with my brothers?" lol i told her no she is your grandma, she is not your brothes grandma. she liked that a lot and asked if we can call bio daddy.. dj (short for daddy J***). i told her of course.
ive been dreading this day for 6 years and now its finally done... i will continue to tell her how much she is loved by all. but wanted to share my happy news with everyone!
sorry so long and any typos or bad grammar