Ok I will not allow my sons grandfrather (my husband dad) to see them. And he is not allowed to see them because shortly after my husband passed away he made a comment about my oldest son (His grandson) who has a learning disability. He said "You can tell something is wrong with him when you ask him something he looks at like he is dumb his younger brother got all the brains".
Now once it was brought to my attention that this was said I told him that I did not appericate that comment he has a learning disability and he can hear and has feelings and you will never see him or your another grandson again untill they are 18 cause I do not want you around him talking like that about him.
My brother-in-law (My husband brother) thinks I should let him see them and try and forgive him for the comment I said aboustley not I meant what I said am I in the wrong ladies ? For not letting him see them anymore.
Advice needed my brother-in-law has me really wondering about this