so my sil had her baby last night.
well i texted my mil, said to tell sil congrats, as i knew she was with sil, and asked if me and her could go to lunch/dinner to sit and talk about the things before the wedding...ignored me, not one response, which okay, i get it, you were with the baby all day long, but it really doesn't take that long to respond.
well we are going to go see baby tomorrow and take diaper cake, i'm actually kind of nervous, as i have a feeling i won't be able to hold the baby at all.
and i told husband that, and he said he didn't care, if he is holding her, then i can hold her as well, his mom and sister need to come to realize he is with me, and it's not going to change.
he then said, it's a shame we live 10 minutes up the road, and we get ignored, we have to be the ones to call mil, and sil lives almost an hr from us, and mil can go visit her all of the time, and now that the baby is here, it'll be even worse.
i just shrugged as not much else i can say....as i am trying my best to get along with these women, as they are my in laws.....
he then said, he doesn't really care, he knows it's his niece but he doesn't really care, because they shouldn't have a baby right now.
and that once we move out of state, when we comev home, we won't be visiting them, we will only be with my family and his dad............and that his sister and mother won't be welcomed at our house, but his bil and the baby will be....
yeah, what the eff do i say to that