Disciplining an almost 2 year old help!

[SapphireMomma]

My sweet baby boy has turned into a monster!  He's always been independent but lately, oh I don't know, he seems to be pushing his limits.

Yes, I realize this comes with his age.

But I am clueless on how to discipline him!  I don't really want to spank him, because I think it does more harm than good.  Time outs seem outdated and not effective.  I need help. I don't want to have a wild child running a muck. 

Thanks in advanced.

[casah4]

 Check out this blog. It has lots of fantastic information.

http://www.janetlansbury.com/category/parenting/behavior/discipline-behavior-parenting/

[SapphireMomma]

Thanks!  I'm at a total loss, since I was "beat" as a kid.  Definately don't want to repeat that pattern, but I have no idea where to start.

Quoting casah4:

 Check out this blog. It has lots of fantastic information.

http://www.janetlansbury.com/category/parenting/behavior/discipline-behavior-parenting/

[HousewifeNina]

I am clear in my expectations and I never give a second chance.

[edelweiss23]

Redirection is what I use with my 2 year old. I try not to use spankings because I was beaten as a child.
I also use quick time outs( 1 min for each year of age)

[Fields456]

At 2 I think the best way is either tell him no and redirect him or time out. Since he is 2 no more than 2 min. Or he will forget why he is there

[jakesmom323]

I swear by the suppernanny method of time out, eye to eye, give expectations and warnings. I have a very independant 2 year old too and he is the best behaved kid I've ever seen. I'm not just saying that;) You have to be persistent and calm by keep putting him the time out spot but eventually they get it and will stay. I do not spank either. Good luck.

[autum713]

Beat is what I would say but only speaking as in "beat his ass" but of course I don't mean to beat him. But swat his lil butt when here's not listening to u.. example say he's running around with a toy where #1 he could get hurt. After uve asked him 2 times,and he doesn't comply swat his little butt.... beating a child with objects or hitting them anywhere but on the rear is unacceptable but teachin ur son that mom means business and getting his attention imho is our job

[fallenangel_353]

Heh both of mine had just gotten started by age 2.. In both of my experiences it has been age 3! What helped? Turning 4 LOL. Now just patiently waiting for dd to turn 4 :)

[Aspiemom0203]

Since my babies are growing up and my oldest is 19, I say lots of hugs and kisses. It goes so very very fast:(

Actually, try explaining in his terms your rules or list of good and bad behavior everyday and let him know the consequences of not following them. Such as no favorite TV time, park time, play time in the tub. Keep it small and specific. And never give in. It will break your heart, but it only takes a few times to get the point you mean business. Good job Mama! Spankings and timeouts don't always help.

[MyBigFam6]

As above said small and specific. Give stickers or treats for good behavior. And take thinks away. I stick with time outs to but I have her stand in the corner after the three time out of the day. Once its goes there she's usually much better