Hear me out first, I know it sounds crazy but when it comes to parenting I envy them. When you are a single mom what you say goes, no one is there to say something about your style of parenting. DH and I are having so many issues when it comes to parenting that is making my life a living hell. Don't think im crazy and I want to be a single mom but when it comes to parenting I wish I could make all the decisions.DD is 5 and right now she listens to no one but DH and that is not all the time. You have to send her to use the bathroom to do #1, and #2. You have to send her to brush her teeth in the morning or at night, to go take a shower(which she hates) basically you have to tell her the same things over and over again. Anytime I try to spank her or raise my voice DH comes in(we tend to argue in font ot her, which I know is bad) and basically takes over and ends up letting DD do whatever she wants. It is so freaking frustrating to have him walk all over me and in front of DD when it comes to discipline. Im at my wits end and there is no point in talking to him. He even gloats about that fact that DD listens to him, I don't know what to do anymore.