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OMG My Doctor Just Called Im So Upset, 08/21 APPT UPDATE #2!

Posted by on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:42 PM
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Im 34 & half weeks pregnant-

At 29 weeks went for my GD test (1 hour) they didn't tell me to fast and since its my first and I didn't know, I drank Orange Juice on the way and had some sprite. It came back with my #s elevated. I couldn't go for the 3 hour one till recently, but they gave me a perscription to do a 1 hour one again since I didn't know I had to fast  fast and I don't need unnecessary blood drawn so just take 1 hour again, I go tomorrow 8AM.

Anyways, I had an US done monday night, my baby is 7lbs12oz according to the US.

Dr calls just now and says "Amy, we need you to do that GD 3 hour test immediately we believe you have diabetes there is no excuse why at almost 35 weeks your baby is so enormous. You probably have Diabetes, your chance of a vaginal delivery are slim to none-because by the time you're full term your baby will be like 10 lbs and you will need a c-section. Your baby is too big then a normal baby and you probably have diabetes.

I said but you tested me for diabetes I was negative, dont you mean GD? She said yes Gestational not regular but definately gestational because your baby is huge and I dont think you will deliver normally we will probably have to schedule you for cesarean.

I FEEL LIKE CRYING !!!!!! I dont know what to do, I thought U/S were not always correct on the weight?! I never had surgery Im so scared and scared for my baby. I am switching DRs i made a post about it, I see my new OBSGYN tomorrow because these people are known for c-sections and induction and this new dr is known for natural childbirth and so on...so therefore I am seeing her.

Please advice, what do you think. Besides I drink lots of caffeine (soda) unfortunately, they say it lowers birth weight and mine is coming out to be obese according to her...Im so scared advice/comments please.

Thanks


***My appointment with the new Dr was supposed to be a 2pm. She called me just now and said "Amy you were asked when you called if your pregnancy was healthy you said yes and you were asked if you had any issues you said no...well we just got your chart and according to it you gained almost 70lbs in your pregnancy and you were given a 1hour test and failed it, and never did the 3 hour test."

I explained to her that the ladies did not tell me to Fast, only if I failed the one hour I had to fast for the 3 hour, and when I told them I had soda and orane juice prior to the test they concluded thats why I failed the test, they gave me another 1 hour to do instead of the three hour and I went this morning.  She said "Amy no one gains almost 70lbs in pregnancy and you were a bit overweight to begin with so it tells me you do have GD and you WILL need a c-section the baby is big so you can not do regular birth and youre a big risk here because of your weight you may end up bleeding out during the c-section and because we only practice out of a community hospital we wont be able to save you." She said I would have to go to a Hospital where if an emergency happened which is likely during my ceserean they could have a better chance of saving me. She also said my babies lungs because of the weight are probably not even developed and will need extensive medical care because big babies dont have healthy lungs... I am 5'10, I went in at 265 and now am 330. My doctor NEVER told me I was unhealthy, I DO NOT have high blood pressure, I have NO health problems Ive been checked A-Z everything and nothing has been wrong so far thank God but to these people Im a big health risk.

OMG I dont know what to do Im crying my eyes out I don't know where to go who to see where to turn, the only hospital known for pushing natural birth turned me down...she didn't even see me she said it would be pointless. 

Suggestions :(

UPDATE #1: I am seeing my original OBSGYN (the one from the first call regarding the fetal weight) TOMORROW, TUESDAY 08/21. I called today to confirm my appointment and asked if my 3 HOUR GCT results had come in and she said yes they arrived and I asked if there was a problem the doctor would call me she said "Yes, absolutely" so far, 6 hours later, no call. I will find out definately tomorrow, and will update. I plan to ask questions, seek the best alternative and tell you exactely our plans. As far as my weight, I am seeing a dietitan and coming with a great plan to lose weight effectively postpartum. I can not thank you enough for the support, concerns, and even the ones who can be alittle bitchy-all your views are right in a way and I thank you all very much. I will title it tomorrow UPDATES #2

Update #2:

I saw the Doctor and I DON'T HAVE GESTATIONAL DIABETES!! I maintained the same weight since my last appointment. I asked her if I would need a c-section she said well we really don't know right now because we thought you were + for GD, but since you're not we'll have to wait and see. She gave me an ULTRASOUND perscription to be done next monday when I will be 36 weeks and I see her again on Wednesday, 08/29. So thankfully, NO GD, baby is very active and said to be in the 90th %tile of weight. So they said they will just monitor her weight with an u/s every 2 weeks and so far everything is good. She was happy to hear I am seeing a dietitian and said whatever I am following seems to be working so far because I didn't gain anything since almost 2 weeks ago. :D Will update next Wednesday!

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AmiJanell
by Silver Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:49 PM

Well I would have them check your sugars again... but I would think they would have seen some glucose in your urine with your regular exams and then done a follow up blood sugar... at least anytime I spill glucose they always check a blood glucose afterwards (which have been normal)

It's true that ultrasounds are only a estimate of weight... but that doesn't mean they are always off either... you baby might be big.... but I wouldn't let them scare you into a c-section... plenty of women give birth to large babies vaginally.

If you do have diabetes, I would just start with a diabetic diet ASAP... it won't help a ton with the size of you baby I don' think... but it will help with the complications your baby might face afterwards with low blood sugars.

LCWAmommy
by Ruby Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:51 PM
Get the test if you do have GD you want to get your blood sugar under control because it means more than just a big baby it can cause problems with babys blood sugar when it is born
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MicheleJM
by Platinum Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:51 PM
Relax..get retested. Talk to the doc about your concerns. They cant force the c section on you. If worse comes to worse a c section isnt that bad though. I had a friend who delivered an 11lb baby. Discuss everything calmly with the doc.
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Aurora-Dove
by on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:51 PM
Weight estimates acne be up to 3lbs off! I had a csection with DS for other reasons so not against it but do not let them bully you into a c section unless it is absolutely necessary! I know someone who gave birth to a 13 lb baby vaginal birth no meds! C section is hard to recover from so if you don't have to have one don't. I would try for vaginal and if it gets to the point that baby just isn't coming out or if baby is in stress go ahead and have c section. otherwise there is no reason you can't have a natural delivery if that is what you still want.
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GigantaursMommy
by Mrs.Awesome Face on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:52 PM
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That doctor is an idiot. Those ultrasounds can be off and almost always are. They told me both of my boys were going to be 10lbs + but I had my 1st at 8lbs 12oz and the 2nd at 9lbs 3oz and even though they were big I delivered both of them vaginally no problems at all.

MDWife12
by Bronze Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:52 PM

I hate doctors that tell a woman she can't deliver a big baby vaginally - they need to stfu about it. Anyway, ultrasounds that late in pregnancy can be WAY off as far as weight goes.

Vampyrechic
by Bronze Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:52 PM

An u/s said that my DD was going to be over 8 pounds when born. She was only 5lbs10oz. 

Trackerchick
by on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:53 PM
My over 10 lb baby arrived at 8 lbs 7 oz. I can't believe how dramatic your dr was on the phone!
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mommytoeandb
by Gold Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:53 PM
Get a new doctor. I was told dd would be 4 to 5 lb. when my water broke at 36 weeks. She was 6 lb. 12 oz.
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DEJavu17
by Silver Member on Aug. 15, 2012 at 5:53 PM

 Honey...your baby could just be big...my youngest DS was 9lbs 10.5 oz...don't let them scare you...but it IS safe just to have the test.

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