She faked her pregnancy and her baby dying. *Edit- Called Coroner* Final Edit. This crazy is TOOO crazy for me.
My DH's family is incredibly socially awkward. His oldest brother is in his 30's, never dated and lives in his parents basement still. He FINALLY found a girlfriend online. He is in love with her. She lives in a different part of the state and has only come to see him a few times. They talk online and on the phone often. He hasn't been allowed to go see her as she has a 7 yo DS.
Well, it gets interesting. Basically no one really knows anything about her. Not completely surprising as my in laws hardly know what the immediate family is up to let alone other people. Really not very talkative people. Anyway, she got pregnant, or so she said. The baby was supposed to be due in December. No one ever saw her while she was pregnant. Not a biggie they live far apart. Then she claims she got beat up by her ex. She sends him an u/s pic and says the Dr. said everything is ok. She told my BIL that she pressed charges and her ex was in jail. That was end of July. TODAY she says she delivered the baby and it died.
This is where I stop believing what is being said. For one, the baby was purportedly delivered and died at 6:43am. By 9:45 she's allegedly released from the hospital. She immediately drives to our town to be with my BIL. She refuses to call the police to report the baby died as a result of the beating, says she's too devastated to talk about it. My BIL is devastated. He asks me to call the police and report the baby died and ask that they hold off on questioning her until tomorrow. I call and guess what. Police have never heard of a beating. In fact, the detective I talked to told me she was a close family friend. She had no idea the girl was pregnant. She had no idea her ex had beat her up. There is no record in any files and her ex is not in jail. Now I'm taking an interest in this girl. I look her up on Facebook. No mention of a pregnancy or of her dating my BIL. She blasts pics of her DS but doesn't post anything about having another baby? No well meaning friends asking her how she's doing with her pregnancy. People do comment on and ask about her DS. She talks about going to concerts and such but not a "serious" (at least on his side) year long relationship????
Now, the question is, do I tell? Remember that he asked me to call the police for him. He got me involved in something I previously wasn't involved in. The problem is when I tell them what I know and what I suspect it's going to be HUGE. He LOVES her and she's his first everything. This is not going to be pretty either way. I have outed her. The detective in that extremely small town is a family friend. I was calling to inform them an infant had DIED. Questions are going to be asked now.
I found hard evidence. I google image searched the pictures of the ultrasound and the dead baby. I found them all online. She stole them. So I take a picture of my computer screen with the images and tell him that she's lying about it all. For some unknown reason he keeps sending me more images to google search and prove that she's lying. He is, of course, trying to prove she's not lying. I find them all. All but one. That one is easily explained away. It's obviously her but she's arched her back and jutted out her stomach so she looks pregnant. Something I could easily accomplish myself. My Brother in law has decided he's just going to reserve judgment until Monday when he'll call the morgue and see if his dead baby is there. People are CRAZY!!!!
The dead baby pic taken from preemiestore.com
This one makes me laugh the most. At least she considered the baby's race in utero. She took this ultrasound from a spanish website. LOL
She's on her way home. Her parents called and told her to get home because they were furious. She has NO Idea why they are mad. My BIL isn't going to tell her I talked to the family friend/detective. Guess we'll see what she does now. My BIL did tell me that she kept saying she wanted to beat me up. Oy!
I called the coroner this morning to ask about any infant deaths. There have been NONE. I knew she was lying but the proof doesn't need a casket. Such a devastating thing to lie about. My BIL said he's in shock and doesn't know what to think. I hope he's thinking about reading her the riot act and never seeing her again!
She admitted to faking the pregnancy BUT says that she WAS pregnant and miscarried early. She couldn't "let go" so she continued to fake the pregnancy. My BIL believes her. He finally told her that he's a registered sex offender. I quit. I can't fix this kind of crazy.
You know, I'd never even thought about him giving her money. Oy!
Quoting all2gethernow:
Holy Jesus! Tell him to call and talk to the detective himself-don't say why. Maybe let the detective know he will be calling. What a freaking mess. Sorry you had to get pulled into it. Poor guy has been had. He hasn't been giving her money, has he?
Unless she's THAT demented.
Quoting smurfbitebug:
She's using him for something. She wouldn't make all this crap up just for funsies..
Unless she's THAT demented.
Pathological liars can't' help it right?? Demented she must be. I can't see what else she could be getting from a 30 year old underemployed man who lives with his parents.
Quoting furbabymum:
Quoting smurfbitebug:
She's using him for something. She wouldn't make all this crap up just for funsies..
Unless she's THAT demented.
Pathological liars can't' help it right?? Demented she must be. I can't see what else she could be getting from a 30 year old underemployed man who lives with his parents.
Am I wrong for not giving a F**** that hes dying?
- furbabymum
on Aug. 17, 2012 at 5:09 PM