Frustrated..........sensitive subject and will not respond if bashing ensues**EDITED WITH NEW INFO
Ok so I got a letter in the mail a few weeks ago or so from DCF (childrens services). They were investigating my daughter's rape as well but couldn't close the case until they knew what the states attorney was doing. Well, the states attorney has decided NOT to prosecute the little prick because there was not enough physical evidence. They believed her but don't want to prosecute and have him aquitted then new evidence come up that would have convicted him. Now if he rapes again and they actually can nail him he can be prosecuted for my daughter too. Not much consolation there! BUT he was substantiated through dcf for sexual abuse against a minor and that will follow him for the rest of his life! He can't get it off his record. He can't work with children, around teenagers. I think he'd even have a hard time getting a job at McDonalds because of all the children. Sucks to be him haha Anyway Tuesday I need to go to the court house to file for a restraining order against him. He'd finally stopped running his mouth some but then the substantiation hit him and now he's pissed! He went to my daughter's 13 year old friend and lied to her about my girl. Got her all pissed and wanting to hit my daughter. We luckily got it straitened out but I found out he's been begging this girl to go hang out with him. He's 18 now! I called her mother and finally told her it was him that raped my daughter. We hadn't been spreading his name around so he had nothing to throw back at her if we had to take it to court ourselves! Well, her mother flipped out, had her daughter delete him off facebook, she wasn't letting her go hang out with him anyway because of his age but she didn't want her daughter talking to a damn rapist! Anyway, I called the cops because I was so angry! My daughter was bawling because its been a year in 3 days and he still hasn't left her alone. He knows who she's dating, when they start dating, when they break up. He's even contacted a couple of the boys and warned them she'll accuse them of rape if they even hold her hand, yeah she got dumped. I'm filing the restraining order and asking the judge to throw in the provision that he is not allowed to discuss my daughter with anyone, he's not allowed to talk about her at all. He's doing his best to turn her friends against her. Sad thing is he's 18, why the hell is he only hanging out with 13-14 year olds? Argh! Sorry so long but thats whats been going on with all this!
Ok so I'm not going into details but in November my 14 year old daughter was raped, it was 2 weeks before she turned 14. Prosecuter doesn't know if they are going to pursue the case cus the fucker was careful not to leave any physical evidence behind, well not enough to convict. Its basically her word against the 18 year old pricks. I told the prosecuter if she didn't nail his ass he was just going to rape again. And tada we just found out he raped a girl in may on her 16th birthday, great way to remember her sweet 16 huh? And of course AGAIN they are NOT prosecuting him. How many young girls does he have to rape before they do something? Pisses me off. Well, my daughter has come to the conclusion that this was not her fault and she is not letting it ruin her life. She is dating and just enjoying her life. This little fuck stain seems to know who she's dating, he makes friends with the boy, runs her into the mud, they break up and boom the now ex is best buds with the guy who raped her. He tells all her friends she has accused DOZENS of guys of rape and that DOZENS of guys are up on charges right now. All things that can be proven false but people are believing him and my daughter has now been labled a whore. I've talked to the detective on the case and the prosecuter and of course its all freedom of speach in their eyes. Doesn't matter that he knows who she's dating, when they actually start dating and when they break up and will deliberately set out to introduce himself to the guy to screw with my girl. Can you say stalker anyone? What pisses me off the most is the prosecutor believes my daughter but doesn't want to put her through the trial process when the physical evidence isn't enough and it'll be his word against hers. I think its bs because his story has changed so many times. First they had sex but it was concentual, then there was some sexual contact but no real sex, then SHE raped HIM. Now its there was no sex, no contact and witnesses to the whole thing NOT happening. Apparently I had people in my house that night that I didn't know but of course I didn't know they were there cus I was drunk and high. Yeah ok sure the woman who doesn't do drugs and doesn't drink was drunk and high and didnt know who was here. Idiots. Can you say one big fucking cluster fuck?
I've gotten to where I just want it over. If they're going to drop it they need to just drop it so he'll leave my daughter alone.