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What age did you lose your virginity? ( spinoff of what age did you get married)

Posted by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:19 AM
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I'm just curious.  I am a "goody goody"  or that is what everyone calls me.   I didn't lose my virginity till I was 18, I was trying to wait till marriage,but I  eventually gave in.   My boyfriend and I were dating for 6months and were in love, I knew we'd be married one day so I gave in.  He was my first and is my only; we've been married now for almost 9yrs.  Everyone is different and experiences things at different times in their lives, so I was just curious to see when everyone else first experienced this.   

* a side note:  

I did date many guys before I dated my husband ,and they did try to pressure me into having sex,but I never done anything than kiss them.  My husband was a gentleman and let me decide when I was ready to take that step.

by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:19 AM
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Texascandee
by Bronze Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:20 AM

I was 18

armywifey26
by Gold Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:20 AM
I had my first kiss at the age of 15 and lost my virginity a few weeks after that(to the same guy)
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MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:21 AM
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Same age I got married, same day. Lol.
19.
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Pnukey
by Jennifer on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:21 AM

I was 20 and engaged to DH, whom I married at 21. We've been married 14 years. I dated before him, but they all knew I wouldn't have sex with them.

joeysmommie07
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:22 AM
I was 18 and married him at 20, was married 8 1/2 yrs and we are divorcing now
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Rachyoungmomof1
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:23 AM
I was 16. I had been dating him for 2 years. (I'm now 17 and pregnant.)
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Hectictracy
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:24 AM
I was 14. It wasn't my dh. Thank god I never got pregnant by him!
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sherry132
by Sherry on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:24 AM

I lost my virginity to a monster at the age of 11, however, my first consentual sexual experience wasn't until I was 17, about four months before my 18th. I THOUGHT he and I were getting married. He called me the day of my birthday to tell me he'd married another woman. 

I don't think I've been hurt emotionally by a man since, and I've been through two divorces. 

lucky2Beeme
by Platinum Member on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:24 AM
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 I was 19 had been dating the guy for 1.5 years. I did not marry him (thank God) I married at 23 to the most wonderful guy. We celebrated our 30th anniversary this past July.

lachelle
by on Aug. 19, 2012 at 10:24 AM

wow, I give you props for your self control!  lol way to go!

Quoting MIA0223:

Same age I got married, same day. Lol.
19.


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