It was a freaking joke, you still don't stand a chance with him.
So first off this post is not meant to offend anyone. If you are the type of woman who would do this, you might want to think before you type, cause you just may make yourself sound super pathetic.
The other night, after having a few drinks, and being super hormonal from having just had a baby, I found myself getting angry at my husband for not staying up to watch tv with me. Yes I realize how stupid that sounds now lol. So he says to me "You are seriously getting mad at me for not watching tv with you." I tried to explai to him that it wasn't the whole tv watching thing, it was simply that late at night is the only time that the children are not up and bothering us and I can get a little attention from him, which I was craving like crazy! As I explained it to him I realized I was being a little nutso about the whole situation and began laughing at myself. After which we started joking about his "lack of paying attention to me" anyone who knows me and my husband will tell you that man would go to the moon and back for me. So I made the joke " you knowt that is why women cheat on their husbands" referring to the whole not paying attention thing.
So he posts on his facebook that I threatened to cheat on him (as a joke, no one who has been around us would have believed it for five seconds) and wouldn't you know it about 10 different girls that he knew before he met me started commenting on it and sending him messages about how if I'm threatening to cheat then its probably too late to fix the marriage. Or that is probably means I already have cheated, or that he deserves so much better than me because I'm a no good bum anyways that is just using him for his money (he is a soldier in the Army that is actually about to lose his job so I'm not sure what money he is talking about) a few even went as far as saying how much of a bitch I was and that they would never treat him that way if they were together.
He of course laughed at all their comments because none of them have even met me, they havent seen him in over five years, and it was all a joke to begin with. I just don't see how a woman can be THAT desperate or pathetic. To me it just shows that you have NO Respect for anyone else's relationship, or yourself for that matter.