sorry pretty long. but im trying to see how this went wrong!
Well this is what happened after I said I would go...
1. I asked her was she going to drive to the bar this time since I drove last time. She said NO.
2. I asked her since Im driving to her house to pick her up, drive to the bar, and drive back to her house to drop her back off at home. That I wanted my dh to come to her house so that I wouldnt have to drive home under the enfluence. She said NO.
3. I asked her why she couldnt drive and why my dh couldnt come by and she said because her bf wouldnt go for it. And so I told her I couldnt go.
I cant see myself driving to her town to pick her up, drive to the bar in my car and gas, then drop her back home, then drive home myself after being at a bar. So she flipped said that she only asked me because she thought we were friends and she needed to get out of the house. I just told her I didnt feel like any of this was fair for me at all and every solution I came up with she shot down. And thinking of my safety I couldnt go. She was upset and calling me ignorant. What do you ladies think? If you never heard from someone for several weeks and then this situation happened to you. Would you go?