do you think it is possible to "HATE" one of your children?
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if you are a bad parent......murders still can have moms who love them.....might not tolerate what a child has done, might not be able to be a part of their lives.....but as a parent you love them as your child.
I have an adult child in college, and I find myself strongly disliking her at times. She lives in another state but I am still responsible for her housing, insurance, gas and several other needs, however she has a habit of saying I didn't ask you for anything and I wonder does she forget that if it were not for me she wouldn't be in school because she failed a class one semester and I had to pay out of pocket for her to stay in the next semester then she recked her car and she can't remember those things. I told myself to hang in there, she has an internship to complete in the spring and she'll be finished. I am a military spouse and move every three years, which she keeps reminding me, that's why she's so dysfunctional from moving so much her entire life. Talking to my husband or family has not helped me not be so depressed about my ungrateful daughter, so I have been holding it in and I'm about to explode any day now.
I dont think i could hate my kids. I might not like something they do but idont hate them for it.
My mother hates me. She's told me so, over and over and considering some of the things she's done to me, written about me and said to other people, I'm pretty convinced.
So, yeah, I'd say it's more than possible.
...especially if you're a twisted, fucked-up monster who nurtures their hate and loathing and blame and resentment the way some people nurture roses or orchids.
i think that if a person is a psychopath then YES. other than that i think its just that kids can really touch on the most sensitive parts of us...anger us the easiest, make us love the deepest. and when they get a bit older you can clash as personalities... but you dont hate them by any means..just find them difficult to deal with or connect with.
After watching the news about kids who kill their siblings or do other horrendous things, yeah I think I could. But its damned hard to put that on MY kids. I just can't see it, but in the entire abstract possible horrible things, yeah I think I could.
Not for me.
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