today a friend picked them up so brandon wouldnt cry. the kids walked out the door and brandon cried and cried. he then went and grabbed his diaperbag and as heavy as that thing is he was pulling it to the frobt door to go with the kids. crying the whole time. i scooped him up and cuddled him. once he calmed down he went into the kids rooms and yelled like he was calling them. yup he had mommy in tears.