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Posted by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 8:28 PM
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Ok so I'm 28 and have two beautiful children my daughter is 4 and my son will be 3 in December. My husband and i were just told by my Gyn that my uterine muscles were failing. He told us I may be able to have one more baby if we do it soon. If I decide not to have a baby i will be getting ready for a hystorectomy, if I do have a baby i will have to have the hystorectomy soon after recovering from birth. Do i give up my last chance for a baby or take a chance for another baby?
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jillbailey26
by Zen Smarts on Sep. 1, 2012 at 8:35 PM

Did you ask what would happen if you do get pregnant now?  What are the health risks?


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

SLOmommy
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 8:37 PM
Um.... Do you want another baby?
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My4Kidds
by Silver Member on Sep. 1, 2012 at 8:37 PM
If u want another baby, then do it.
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jhslove
by Bronze Member on Sep. 1, 2012 at 8:39 PM

Were you planning on having another one? If so, I would say as long as you can afford it and it can be done safely, go ahead and have another right now.

But if you weren't planning to have another baby, then don't do it just because of this medical issue. If you decide later on that you want another child, but can't give birth again by that point, there will be other options available to you. But you should only have a baby because you truly want one.

bsawyer02
by on Sep. 1, 2012 at 11:05 PM
I've wanted another baby for a little well, not my hubby. we've talked about it for days and today he told me as long as the Dr. gives his okay at our next appointment we can have another baby. I'm terrified I'll have to spend a lot of time on bed rest. I'm sacred and was wondering if there was any one out there that had had a baby with a falling uterus
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