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Should people be charged with child abuse if...

I believe that people that smoke in the same home with children present or in a car should be charged with child abuse. My MIL, FIL, SIL and BIL all smoke in the car with my niece and nephew in it and also smoke in their homes. My niece and nephew are always sick and my niece has been on breathing treatments. My SIL also smoked during her pregnancies. A child's health is being put In danger and I think there needs to be consequences for this. Thoughts?

ETA:  Just read that it is actually illegal to smoke in the car with minors present in some states.  Good for them! 

ETA:  For those that maybe don't understand the effects of second hand smoke on a child....



Health Effects Of Secondhand Smoke On Children

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September 2009

The 2006 U.S. Surgeon General's Report, "The Health Consequences of Involuntary Exposure to Secondhand Smoke," has concluded that there is no safe level of exposure to secondhand smoke and that, on average, children are exposed to more secondhand smoke than adults. Children are significantly affected by secondhand smoke. Children's bodies are still developing, and exposure to the poisons in secondhand smoke puts them at risk of severe respiratory diseases and can hinder the growth of their lungs. Secondhand smoke is a known cause of low birth weight, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), asthma, bronchitis, pneumonia, middle ear infection, and other diseases.1

Although levels of secondhand smoke exposure declined between 1988-1994 and 1999-2004 in the general population overall, children were the sub-group with the least rate of decline.2

Low Birth Weight

  • Secondhand smoke is a known preventable cause of low birth weight, which contributes to infant mortality and health complications into adulthood. Secondhand smoke exposure reduces the birth weight of infants of nonsmoking mothers and contributes to additional reductions in birth weight among babies of smoking mothers.3

  • Nonsmoking pregnant women who are exposed to secondhand smoke tend to give birth to infants who have a reduced mean birth weight of 33g or more. Secondhand smoke exposure also increases the risk of a birth weight below 2,500g by 22 percent.4

Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)

  • Maternal smoking is the strongest risk factor leading to SIDS.5

  • Infants who die from SIDS tend to have higher concentrations of nicotine in their lungs than do control children, regardless of whether smoking is reported.6

Cognitive Impairments

  • Secondhand smoke exposure impairs a child's ability to learn. It is neurotoxic even at extremely low levels. More than 21.9 million children are estimated to be at risk of reading deficits because of secondhand smoke. Higher levels of exposure to secondhand smoke are also associated with greater deficits in math and visuospatial reasoning.7

  • The offspring of mothers who smoke one pack of cigarettes per day during pregnancy have an IQ score that is, on average, 2.87 points lower than children born to nonsmoking mothers.8

Behavioral Problems

  • Children born to women nonsmokers who are exposed to secondhand smoke during pregnancy and to women who smoked during pregnancy are more likely to suffer from Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and conduct disorder.9, 10

  • Girls are exposed to higher rates of secondhand smoke than boys, but boys have greater problems with hyperactivity, aggression, depression, and other behavioral problems.11

Respiratory Problems

  • The U.S. Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) has reported that secondhand smoke exposure increases the risk of lower respiratory tract infections such as bronchitis and pneumonia. The EPA estimates that between 150,000 and 300,000 annual cases of lower respiratory tract infections in infants and young children up to 18 months of age are attributable to secondhand smoke exposure. Of these cases, between 7,500 and 15,000 result in hospitalization.12

  • Infants whose mothers smoke are 50 percent more likely to be hospitalized with a respiratory infection during their first year when compared to infants with nonsmoking mothers. Infants whose mothers smoke in the same room have a 56 percent higher risk of being hospitalized compared to infants whose mothers smoke in a separate room. There is a 73 percent higher risk if mothers smoke while holding their infants and a 95 percent higher risk if mothers smoke while feeding their infants.13

  • Early exposure to cigarette smoke is a likely significant independent risk factor for subsequent respiratory disease. It is likely that in utero damage is compounded by increased susceptibility to the effects of continued postnatal secondhand smoke exposure.14


  • Asthma attacks are perhaps the most well-known health effect of secondhand smoke exposure among children. Secondhand smoke exposure increases the frequency of episodes and the severity of symptoms in asthmatic children. The EPA estimates that 200,000 to 1,000,000 asthmatic children have their condition worsened by exposure to secondhand smoke.15

  • Secondhand smoke exposure is associated with increased respiratory-related school absenteeism among children, especially those with asthma.16

  • Maternal and grand maternal smoking may increase the risk of childhood asthma. Relative to children of never-smokers, children whose mothers smoked throughout the pregnancy have an elevated risk of asthma in the first five years of life. Children whose mothers quit smoking prior to the pregnancy show no increased risk.17

  • Secondhand smoke exposure causes children who already have asthma to experience more frequent and severe attacks.18

  • Maternal smoking, in utero and later, is significantly related to lifetime wheezing in offspring.19

Repercussions on Adult Health

  • Not only does in utero and childhood secondhand smoke exposure cause decreased lung function and asthma in children, but such exposure is also responsible for poor lung function and respiratory disease in adults. Men who report postnatal secondhand smoke exposure and women who report prenatal exposure are more likely to have respiratory problems as adults.20, 21

  • Secondhand tobacco smoke exposure raises adolescents' risk of metabolic syndrome - a disorder associated with excessive belly fat that increases one's chances of heart disease, stroke, and type II diabetes.22

  • The level of secondhand smoke a child is exposed to is directly proportional to the likelihood of the child becoming a smoker as an adolescent or an adult.23

  • Moderate exposure to tobacco smoke is associated with decreased elasticity of the abdominal aorta in healthy 11-year-old children. Altered aortic elasticity is an early marker of atherosclerosis.24

  • SHS exposure in motor vehicles may be associated with nicotine dependence symptoms among young never-smokers.25

  • Women exposed to six or more hours of secondhand smoke a day as children and as adults have a 68 percent greater chance of having difficulty conceiving and suffering more miscarriages.26

  • There is an increased risk of failed embryo implantation among women reporting current secondhand tobacco smoke exposure.27

  • In subjects hospitalized because of early wheezing, prenatal and postnatal secondhand smoke exposure is a risk factor for asthma in early adulthood. The connection between prenatal smoke exposure and asthma appears to be mediated via the development of bronchial hyper-responsiveness. Smoke exposure in infancy is associated with an increased risk of active smoking in early adult age, which in turn, is linked to current asthma.28

  • The adverse effects of postnatal smoking on development of airway growth may persist into early adulthood.29

May be reprinted with appropriate attribution to the American Nonsmokers' Rights Foundation,© 2009.


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by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:02 PM
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by Justine on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:09 PM
Each person has an opinion on it. They are going to face smoke at some point in life. I don't smoke and if I did I would do it where I wanted under the law. If they change it then I guess people wouldn't be doing it. Until then they aren't doing anything wrong.

Quoting autumn_sunset:

It's not about keeping them in a bubble it's about lung cancer.

Quoting Justine1123:

My mom smokes in the car when my daughters in it. I don't believe it's abuse but whatever. You can't keep them in a bubble.
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by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:09 PM
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The world as we know it today is full of nasty evil things that can cause any number of ailments...Should it be considered abuse if we give our children processed food or foods filled with preservatives that we truly have no clue what is in them or the true side effects? Do we really know how much modern technology factors into the health crisis's our children are facing in this day and age? I get what your saying but I feel like to many people are trying to micromange the lives of others under the ruse that they are protecting our children.

by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:09 PM
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by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:10 PM
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I wish my dad could...I've has asthma since I was 6 because of my dads selfishness.
He's not allowed around my son.
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by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:10 PM
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Yes because second hand smoke kills and the child looks to family as protection from things that can harm them and i get it's that persons right to smoke and don't care either way,But shouldn't the child have a right to breathe clean air esp. in a closed area and expect protection from harm from family ? !

by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:11 PM
I completely agree!
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by on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:11 PM
bahahah no. Is it a shitty fucking thing to do.. Sure. But it's not abuse. And I say this as a smoker and someone who grew up with a smoker who smoked in the house and car. I dont smoke in my house though.
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by Platinum Member on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:11 PM
No I don't. I smoke around my kids and so do most of my friends. None of our kids are sick all the time and the kids are all old enough to walk away if it bothers them. My oldest doesn't like it so he doesn't sit near me. I'm trying to quit but I'm not a bad parent just because I smoke around my kids.
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by Kayleen on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:12 PM
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There's a difference between not being able to control pollutants in the atmosphere, and DELIBERATELY choosing to smoke around your kids when you can choose not to.

Quoting Mamie_85:

In that case, don't ever let your children out of the house. Ever.

Quoting autumn_sunset:

It's not about keeping them in a bubble it's about lung cancer.

Quoting Justine1123:

My mom smokes in the car when my daughters in it. I don't believe it's abuse but whatever. You can't keep them in a bubble.

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by Silver Member on Sep. 10, 2012 at 4:12 PM

Child abuse.. no.

But at this point, they should either just make cigarettes illegal.. or leave the issue alone..

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