Why is it that when the father of child/children gets a new g/f or new wife they always try to be mommy? Or in some cases tell the child/children they are the new and only mommy?
Im notice on here a few posts where the step parent or g/f says its their child since the father is primary residence. I even had to deal with this in real life when I was away for training in the Army this girl moves into my home and took my husband (now ex husband) and told my daughter (who was 5 almost 6) that she was now mommy. She told my daughter I was no longer mommy because I didnt stay with her that I was far away. When I joined the Army my marriage wasnt the greatest but it wasnt too bad. My ex told me when I got done training he would move down to my duty station (which happen to be in TX and he was in CT) so we would be together well that g/f had him file divorce and forced my daughter to call her mommy. My daughter knows Im her only mommy and I speak with her daily on the phone and I go see her when I can plus I send packages several times a year. These women need to learn to back off and let the father and mother parent the child.