my son is 5 and we have been through one hell of a nasty divorce. my ex physically abused my son during the divorce and there was other mental trauma when the my two kids went to their fathers but i have noticed that since we moved 300 miles away that my son is whining. my boyfriend is telling me that my son needs to stop whining, hes 5. HOW normal is it for a 5 year old to WHINE?. my daughter does it some times but shes 3. we just got him set up in school and have a therispist talking to my son at the school which is handy and i dont have to go out of school. any help would be nice, no bashing please i have been through enough crap from my ex husband.