well I have been going through a lot this past year with stomach problems and being sick all of the time. I am always sore and been running a low grade temp so my doc finally decided to test me for fibromyalgia. Got a call and they wanted to do a new test for rheumatoid athritis also. Found out a few days later I have RA. So I am dealing, it helps a lot with what I have been going through. I am only 30 so that was a hard hit. I can't get my husband to stop complaining about me everyday, he even does it in front of the kids which it hurts. I say I have a headache he says oh you are the headache, or I tell him I am not feeling good he says you never feel good, or I say I am not in a good mood cause I am in pain his words are you are never in a good mood name one time when you are. He is always saying mean things everyday about trading me in to find someone healthier and younger. He never has anything nice to say to me and I tell him that and he makes a joke about it like I just told you I loved you a few days ago. I don't want to keep suffering and making him suffer to. I am hurting a lot and I can't get him to understand that. When I am laying there not feeling good he still asks me to get up and get him something to eat or drink. I just feel as if he doesn't care.