But then, we found out when they were born and I'm always completely drained of emotion by the time baby is born.
Yes, simply because I was just so happy to have a baby ... didn't care really what it was. It was healthy and it was mine!! We didn't find out until they were both ... #1, back in 1971 they didn't have the technology to know before so dh #1 & I had to wait, we had a son. With baby #2, dh #2 & I chose to wait (it was now 1989) until the baby was born; we had a girl .. we both really hoped for a girl, but still would have been happy with either.
Not when i found out the sex. I did cry when i found out i was pregnant and again when the dr confirmed it. We had been trying for over 4 years. My dh did cry when we found out we were having a boy. He cried again when we found out we were having our first girl. Wtih our 2nd girl i had thought she was a boy but dh swore it was a girl so he didnt cry just gave me the Told ya so look lol
With 3 of my 5 I didn't know what they were until they were born. With the other 2 I did a little.
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