LI am pissed off at Dh. When Dh decided to run his business full time he agreed that family would come first. We set aside times that he would not work. Monday nights so he could take our oldest son to karate, Thursday nights so he can take our 5 year old to piano lessons and Saturdays. He hasn't been the best at sticking to this schedule. I have found myself getting very last minute notices about upcoming business and having to rearrange my schedule. This not only effects me, but our boys. Our 5 year old has behavioral and emotional issues. When Dh misses a piano lesson because of work our son gets upset. He acts out, refuses to go to piano lessons and basically makes things difficult. I try my best not to let it get to me but it does. Today Dh came home from work at 10am. He said he couldn't work until after the house gets inspected. He said he'd probably be heading back later today. I asked him if he knew what today was. He said yeah it's Thursday. I said it's piano. He said he'd be working late so it's all on me. I asked him why he couldn't just do it tomorrow and he said he had a pool table install at 9am. I asked if he could do it later in the afternoon and he looked at me like I had a third eye growing out of my head. At 2pm he got a phone call and just like that he was gone. He promised me he'd make this work. I made him swear that family would come first and he promised even though it doesn't feel like it. UGH!
on Oct. 11, 2012 at 3:51 PM