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Flirting...when you're married!

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Poll

Question: Is it ever okay to flirt when you're married (with someone other than your spouse)?

Options:

Sure, a little flirting is harmless.

No way - it's not appropriate.


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Total Votes: 725

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by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 12:54 PM
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workoutmom2b1g
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:02 PM
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My husband is the biggest flirt of them all. Its pretty comical. he esp likes flirting with older woman. He loves them! I don't mind. I have no issues wth my self or our relationship. With that being said, once and awhile it makes me uncomfortable, and when asked to stop he does. No harm done. 

in love

mama2b100808
by Bronze Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:04 PM

I guess so. My husband is all I need. 

Quoting godsgirl26:

Because some women are nasty like that lol.

Quoting mama2b100808:

I say why would you want to flirt with any other man then your husband. 


Liyoness
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:22 PM
11 moms liked this
Wow. Comprehension FAIL.


Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?



Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.

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kansasmom1978
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:23 PM

Flirting a lot of times is subconscious. I think it's one thing to be friendly and perhaps joke. But to throw yourself out their like a slut is disrespectful

Megan11587
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:23 PM
4 moms liked this

 I'm a natural flirt, I can't help it.  DH knows I'm like this, which is part of why we started dating.  He knows I go home to him.

EmilysMom2010
by Bronze Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:24 PM
1 mom liked this
For me-yes.
For him-no
Bwahahahahaha
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Young_Mommy89
by Ruby Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:24 PM
IMO, no its not ok. Flirting indiCates a WANT to go there & flirting can lead to much much more
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Megan11587
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:26 PM
2 moms liked this

 How the heck did you pull that out of what she said?

Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?

Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.

 

Young_Mommy89
by Ruby Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:32 PM
3 moms liked this
*facepalm* She MEANS if you're not ok with your hubby flirting or taking it to a certain level with others then you shouldn't either

Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?



Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.
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mommysangelface
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 2:38 PM
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Im going by what you said. Lol

Quoting angevil53:

Um way out of context. But i will answer like this...if you're flirting with someone you shouldn't cross a line that would be cheating if your dh was doing the same thing. So treat your dh with the same respect you expect to get.




Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?





Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.

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