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Flirting...when you're married!

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Question: Is it ever okay to flirt when you're married (with someone other than your spouse)?

Options:

Sure, a little flirting is harmless.

No way - it's not appropriate.


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by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 12:54 PM
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KellBell0820
by Silver Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:00 PM
Sarcastic or not, what you said doesn't make sense or go with what she originally posted.


Quoting mommysangelface:

Since you took that seriously then you failed



But I know its hard to read when someone is being sarcastic




Quoting Liyoness:

Wow. Comprehension FAIL.






Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?







Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.


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EyEmTuRtLe
by Turtle on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:00 PM
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Flirting within reason can be relatively harmless but not always. Not to mention there are many forms for flirting. And many reasons to flirt.


Both my DH and I do flirt but with limitations. I am more of an intellectual flirt when it comes to dealing with contractors that we have signed contracts with. But if I'm dealing with getting a bid it's a little intellectual and the typical flirting of batting the eye lashes, making little minor comments an what not if it means I get what I need (for work) or get a discount.

My DH will flirt with women when he works to also get a little leeway with what he needs. Things like a roll of Gaffy tape, an extra 10 minutes of sleep while touring or a bid from a female arborist. But in the end he usually lets me deal with it.

But we both emphaze we are married. We will even go as far as introduce them to our spouse.

ColieO
by I Rock on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:01 PM
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Little bit of flirting = more sales for me.

:)

My husband knows, he doesn't care. He used to be a waiter, he knows the drill. Lol. I'm not interested in anyone it may appear I'm flirting with. I just do it to pay the bills if necessary.
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angevil53
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:01 PM
I thought the same thing. I had to reread it a couple of times to get it.


Quoting Young_Mommy89:

Your sarcasm makes NO sense with what she said



Quoting mommysangelface:

*facepalm*





Sarcasm






Quoting Young_Mommy89:

*facepalm* She MEANS if you're not ok with your hubby flirting or taking it to a certain level with others then you shouldn't either







Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?









Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.

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osubucksbaby
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:04 PM
Lol why are people attacking you? I totally understood what u meant

Quoting angevil53:

Um no you shouldn't. I meant my comment in context to the question.




Quoting DollFace-23:

I don't like watching him poop, so does that mean I should stop doing that too?





Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.

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angevil53
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:05 PM
Idk. I think they are trying to be funny. Oh well.


Quoting osubucksbaby:

Lol why are people attacking you? I totally understood what u meant



Quoting angevil53:

Um no you shouldn't. I meant my comment in context to the question.






Quoting DollFace-23:

I don't like watching him poop, so does that mean I should stop doing that too?







Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.


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Ultra_
by Bronze Member on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:09 PM
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We're the same way and I am one of those people. So, I agree!

Quoting mrssummerlin:

I see no issue with it an niethier does my DH.
Some people are natural flirts and do it without even realizing they do.



Megan11587
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:14 PM
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 lol.  When you have to explain a joke to everyone, it just didn't fly.

Quoting Liyoness:

I don't think you understand how to use sarcasm.


Quoting mommysangelface:

Since you took that seriously then you failed



But I know its hard to read when someone is being sarcastic




Quoting Liyoness:

Wow. Comprehension FAIL.






Quoting mommysangelface:

So if your comfortable having sex in the car with your husband, you can do it with anyone in the car?







Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.


 

Quatrekins
by on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:15 PM
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I totally agree with this statement; I can't understand why people are mocking it.

People have different levels of what they are comfortable with. Don't do anything with a guy that you wouldn't be comfortable with your DH doing with a girl.

Quoting angevil53:

Depends. You should never do anything you wouldn't feel comfortable with your dh doing.


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godsgirl26
by ♥Char2theMaine♥ on Nov. 6, 2012 at 3:26 PM
Amen sista :)

Quoting jillbailey26:

If you can't do it in front of your spouse, don't do it at all.

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