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Does anyone actually regret having kids? I'm sure there are some people who do, so feel free to go anon if you are afraid of being judged. 

If you regret having kids, tell me why? Or...do you regret the number of kids you have and why?

by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 4:05 AM
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Allinorder
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 6:39 AM
I don't regret my kids. I regret not getting my life together before having kids. I wish I was more established before having them.
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Teeshann
by Ruby Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 7:44 AM
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 i regret not starting sooner so i could have more. lol.

PinkyPan
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 7:47 AM

Nope, I have no regrets and 3 wonderful sons.

LaLa_Ivory
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 7:49 AM
Just regret having 2 & 3 close together.
Should've given my body a breather lol
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Ktina11
by Silver Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 7:52 AM
There are days when I feel overwhelmed...so yes. But then I think about the joy they bring and try to remain calm. I don't know life without them...but I do miss my free time and mess free house.
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jakesmom323
by on Nov. 13, 2012 at 7:56 AM
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No, I have two healthy sons that I wanted very much. I waited till I was mature enough to get married at 28, my first son at 29, and the next at 32. We are financially stable and I'm able to be a SAHM. Everything was very thought out. If it wasn't, I could have a different answer.
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jellybeanjean
by Bronze Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 8:13 AM

No. The only thing I regret was not properly planning them.But I am happy with my DD and the LO on the way =)

redhead-bedhead
by Platinum Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 8:32 AM

No I love being a mom. I actually mean that. My oldest DD was accidentally on purpose and then it took a year to conceive my youngest.

We are on year two of trying to conceive a third child. 

.sugar.kisses.
by Silver Member on Nov. 13, 2012 at 8:34 AM
I don't regret my kids. I just wish I would have waited till I was in my late 20's

FYI. You can't go anon in this group
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MrS.GiFFord
by Brittany on Nov. 13, 2012 at 8:36 AM
I used to regret that I had then so young but now that I am 26 it doesn't bother me so much. I love being a mom and always have...just wish I was older and wiser.
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