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Ummm....what??

Posted by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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6 1/2 years into our relationship and he decides to tell me now that he might not be done wanting more kids.

Wtf.

I knew 8 years ago that I don't want any more. He's known this all along. Now we might be done because of this.

Wtf...
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waffa
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:21 AM
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uhhhhh...

*awkwardness*

<.<

>.>

MamaBoo52
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:22 AM

It sounds like you don't have kids together? Maybe he thinks you're a great mom and wants some of his own with you. Minds change. It sucks I'm sure but try and talk it out. Why don't you want more kids? How many do you have?

_WC_Mama
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:22 AM
Huh ?,he might be done because of what
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JustMe0326
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Our relationship might be done because he wants more kids and I don't.

Quoting _WC_Mama:

Huh ?,he might be done because of what
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grey7399
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:24 AM

did you have a hysterectomy?

sucker4myloves
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:24 AM

She said he might not be done wanting kids, meaning it turns out he might want more children while she does not. What a sticky situation!

Quoting _WC_Mama:

Huh ?,he might be done because of what


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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:24 AM

He would leave or you would leave over this?  People are allowed to change their mind.  Perhaps his biological clock is ticking right now.  Give it awhile and revisit the discussion at a later date.

sucker4myloves
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:24 AM

I'm sorry :( Don't have any children you will resent, because it's not fair to them, and no matter how you try to hide it, they will feel it.

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JustMe0326
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:26 AM
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No we don't have any kids together. He has a 9 yo dd whom he has shared custody with her mother and I have an 8 yo ds whom I have shared custody with his father.
There's a million reasons why I don't want any more. We have our boy and girl and I'm happy with that. I don't want to start all over at the beginning. I don't want to put my body through pregnancy again. We can't afford it. Our house isn't big enough. I could go on and on.


Quoting MamaBoo52:

It sounds like you don't have kids together? Maybe he thinks you're a great mom and wants some of his own with you. Minds change. It sucks I'm sure but try and talk it out. Why don't you want more kids? How many do you have?

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JustMe0326
by on Nov. 18, 2012 at 12:27 AM
No. I tried to have my gyn tie my tubes when I had ds but he wouldn't do it. Said I was too young and would change my mind. Well. 8 years later and I still haven't!

Quoting grey7399:

did you have a hysterectomy?

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