Im not sure how i feel about the situation. On the one hand i agree with my boyfriend that she's a bit too young to travel that far an that the trip should be postponed until she's a little older. But on the other hand i would feel awful if we waited an grandma passed before she got to meet my daughter an the rest of the family met her for the first time at my grandmas funeral. I also think that my boyfriend should be able to come. He is the father of my child after all an it's important to me that he meets that side of the family but my parents disagree they think he should stay home an work but we work at the same place an if we were both gone for a week one of us if not both would get paid just so our boss doesn't have to tell his boss that we're gone (real professional i know!).
I just don't know how to go about this. I agree with both my boyfriend an dad but i don't know what to do! Im lost an confused about all this an i really don't wanna upset anybody but i feel like no matter what i do someone isn't going to be happy. Im more worried about my child then anything tho. Taking a newborn on a plane during flu season just doesn't sound like that great of an idea. Gaah!
What's your opinion? How would you handle the situation?