See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
At my ex for all the pain he has caused me and my kids. It has been a week and a half since we broke up and almost a week since we moved out. He already has another GF infact he started seeing this new GF just a couple of days before he broke up with me. I hate that he only decides to be a dad when its convienent for him. Since we moved out almost a week ago he has not asked to see the kids but he will send a text to my son. I text my EX today to tell him that are DD hasnt really eaten in a week. She may eat a banana here or yogurt there maybe a fruit snack but not much else. He said if she doesnt start eating soon to take her to the DR. I said i cant afford the co pay right now. So he said ok then take her to the ER. he has not asked about his kids or asked about how they are adjusting. I hate him for what he has done to my kids to see the pain in their eyes because their dad doesnt want them. I wish he would be a full time dad or dissapear out of their lives for good. Instead of coming and going as he pleases. We have a visitation order in place and he never goes by it. He expects me to drop EVERYTHING i am doing so he can see the kids. I am in the process of looking for a job hopefully i will find one before we move in 2 weeks. I am trying to clean up the mess my EX has created with my kids. The pain he has cause and doesnt even care he has turned my DD in to a monster by always allowing her to get away with things and giving her what she wants. We didnt deserve the pain he has caused us and doesnt even care or have any remorse for all the lies and cheating he did. I am going to swear off men for awhile just focus on me and my kids and finding a job and getting settled in to our new apartment. IF i am meant to find love again or meant to get married again than he will find me because i am not looking. Maybe if i stop looking i will actually find one of the good guys who will treat me and my kids with respect and love and treat me like a queen and treat my kids as his own. I'm done with all the liers and cheaters. We are better off without them and this time i refuse to look back. From here on out we will be looking forward to a bigger and brighter future for me and my kids.