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I think my mom is crazy- OMG she just did it again!! only worse!!! thats it

or at least has the mind of a 15 yr old or something.    I have been told for years by close friends and DH that my mom is nuts and a very negative influence on my life but well she's my mom so I ignored it.  However, it seems everyone was right.    As a mom I am so proud of every accomplishment my kids achieve.  My mom is not.   I started a very successful cleaning busines a yr ago and instead of being happy her first comment was " remember you cant go through peoples drawers"    Really mom?  you know because apparently I have a habit of that and didn't know it?   Her next was " dont ignore the IRS" again really?  I am so stupid?     Then, I got a kidney stone and she said it was because I was working too hard.  I bought a new house ( by myself DH is in school)  she said  "dont get to big for your britches now"  what?    DD is making straight A's in highschool and I was excited about it, her comment was "well she doesn't go to public school so its probably easier"  she goes to private school that is rated # 4 in the nation for college preparedness.      My mom slapped me a lot when I was a kid, and I said I would never slap my children and her comment was "wait until they become teens" well DD is 16 and never been slapped, her response was "well your just a better mother than me" and she said it very sarcastically.     I could go on and on and on but its long enough.  Is it me?  Or does she sound like a jealous teenager?    BTW I have not thrown this is in her face like she claims I have just been happy with things and wanted to tell my mom.     

OMG She just pulled another one, she called to get my address to send kids Christmas presents ( she does give presents to the kids) and DD 16 answered and jokingly said "what are you getting me for Christmas?" and my mother ( now tell me shes not crazy) said " a little N!$@er doll"  I will not say that horrible word so i hope you can figure it out.   My DD said "here's mom" and gave me the phone and wrote what she said.  I told her that was horribly innappropriate and wrong and she said " fine they aren't getting anything" and hung up.  Thats it we are done never again.

by on Nov. 25, 2012 at 1:22 PM
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xLilBit22
by La Melodia on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:33 AM
Omg. That sounds nuts!
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ilovemykids323
by Silver Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:34 AM

 Sounds like my mom. My mom doesn't even talk to me now when we are out in public so thats fine by me. but she is always making comments like that. it drives me nuts! I'm glad I dont see her or talk to her much. I always wanted a close mother daughter relationship. Guess I"ll have to have a clsoe mother inlaw to daughter inl aw relationship because she's more like a mother to me. :)

rowseylove
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 1:29 PM
My mother is the same way, horrible negative attitude. She's no longer a part of me or my childrens life, it isn't worth the stress.
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dirby1988
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 1:40 PM
Sounds like a nut job to me and needs to be institutionalized if u ask me. But thas my opinion. Good luck with what u decide to do.
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taniamorse85
by Silver Member on Nov. 27, 2012 at 12:01 AM

Actually, depending on the type (there are several), a person with bipolar disorder may have mostly manic episodes, mostly depressive episodes, or somewhere in between.

Quoting Lordgodempress:


Quoting K_D88:

 My mom is like that I always assumed maybe she was bi-polar...


I thought and correct me if I'm wrong but dont people with bi polar disorder have mood swings and go through manic phases?  My mom is always like that, her mood doesnt change at all.


Tennismom360
by on Nov. 27, 2012 at 12:09 AM

I cut my mom off this August for the most part.  We live many miles away and I used to talk to her on the phone monthly. Since August I have called her once and it was very brief.

little.worthen
by Tess on Nov. 27, 2012 at 12:12 AM

my mom is just like that

Quoting Cochise:

I had a mother-in-law who was just like that !!  I always suspected something wasn't right. Maybe bi-polar ...or just a plain old mean bitch.  Not everyone is nice....my mother-in-law treated her children like that too....it seemed she was kinder to strangers than her own blood.   ):



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jkleinman
by <3munchkin's mama<3 on Nov. 27, 2012 at 12:12 AM
Yikes!
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Ciaodarlings
by on Nov. 27, 2012 at 12:14 AM
She sounds like a piece of work.
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