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SAHM's are like prostitues

Posted by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:21 PM
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I was talking to an acquaintence of mine over the phone the other day.

We discussed our work status, her and her husband work full time out of the home. I told her i'm a sahm.

She was telling me how she wished she could be a sahm but how she wouldn't feel right because sahm are like prostitues.

She said, "if you think about it, women stay home to have sex with their husbands and since they don't have jobs and their husbands pay for everything, it's like their husbands pay to have sex with them."

I didn't say anything. I just said the baby is crying so I have to go. 

I just wanted to cry. I can't believe she would say shit like that. I thought to myself, "are you for real? It stings you because you can't be a sahm so you have to knock what I do?"

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by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:21 PM
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TattoodMommy19
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:22 PM
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What a bitch
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Simple-Beauty
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:22 PM
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At least she assumes we're all getting laid, lol!

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mommyoftwo103
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:23 PM
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Your acquaintance is a moron!

dandylynes
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:24 PM
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Was she saying it in a joking manner?

xLilBit22
by La Melodia on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:25 PM
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Shes an idiot!
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Ktina11
by Silver Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:25 PM
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Wow! I am lucky enough to work from home but I would never consider a SAHM a prostitute as long as children were her priority. I don't get woman that don't work when their children are in school. To me that does seem like freeloading...but not my business.
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Simple-Beauty
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:26 PM
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We have a joint account, I spend what I want, when I want.

Quoting PaiSho773:

She has a point.  LOL. 


Your SO gives you money when you need it and you can't go and spend $400 because you can, right?


 

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snakesNsnails
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:27 PM
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well..at least shes only an acquaintence and not a friend...that was rude and plain stupid...dont feel bad about it..be glad that you get to stay home with your little one...shes just jealous!

militarywife09
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:28 PM
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This reply makes no sense. Try again?

And OP, that person is an idiot.


Quoting PaiSho773:

She has a point.  LOL. 


Your SO gives you money when you need it and you can't go and spend $400 because you can, right?


 


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Momof3smoochies
by Silver Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:28 PM
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Me too.

Quoting Simple-Beauty:

We have a joint account, I spend what I want, when I want.



Quoting PaiSho773:

She has a point.  LOL. 



Your SO gives you money when you need it and you can't go and spend $400 because you can, right?



 

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