I am so angry with my daughter's "biological idiot". He lies all the time.
My daughter is almost 13 years old. Him and I broke up 12 years ago. He has always been a holiday father. You know, the type of guy that shows up around the holidays but doesnt give a shit the rest of the year. He see's her about 3 times a year.
He lives 2 hours away from us.
We have been discussing Christmas plans over the past 3 weeks and finally came to an agreement last week. (or so I thought) He had requested to have her from December 26-31. At first that didnt work for me, but I changed our plans to accommodate him as its in the best interest of my daughter.
Last night I talked to him and he says we never had the phone call last week. Really?
He wants my husband or myself to meet him 45 minutes away from our home to drop her off. I told him no. I told him if he wants to see her he is more than welcome but must pick her up and drop her off at home. He says I'm being unreasonable. So, as a "punishment" to me he said fine then that he wants to take her what the court order states and pick her up December 30 and return her January 6. I guarantee the only reason he is doing this is because I made the mistake of telling him we were celebrating Christmas with my family on January 1. So, now my daughter won't be able to be there. As well, she will not be going to his mothers for a visit (she lives 7 hours away from us).
What is your opinion on the driving situation?