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How often do you and your.....*Sex related*



Question: How often do you and your DH/SO/DF/DW/Whoever have sex?


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Okay, so my DH, his friend and myself were having a conversation about sex today.

DH's friend say we have sex too much. I didn't think that was possible, but he says that anything more than three times a week is too many.


by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:21 PM

 Sex does not a relationship make. It is unfortunate when people get together and their sex drives are different. There is no normal on this. With my first husband sex was different than with my second husband on rate of frequency. So it depends on your partner. If you have a partner you really like between the sheets and the frequency isn't there. Well that will be tough. For older couples there is Viagra, there is also something called Libigro. Libigro is great and I highly recommend it!

by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:24 PM

 Oh my gosh, pregnancy with the increased blood supply or heat or whatever. Oh my. I remember those days! Great times,,,,,,snicker snicker!!!! Hey congrats on having a wee one!

Quoting mommaslilmen:

Right now at least 3-4 ...I could go e ery night with these pregnancy hormones. After little miss is here...its gonna be a little different

by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:28 PM
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No such thing as too much. Unless something breaks inside you. Then you should definitely consider stopping

I have a dream that one day I will be judged not by my appearance but by the content of my character  -Martin Luther King Jr

by Gold Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:32 PM

That is the stupidest thing I've ever heard, whats right for one couple is not right for another. We have sex a couple times a month and are just fine with that. sometimes more, depends on how busy and tired we are etc.. Maybe your DH friend is jealous! lol  it's not unhealthy and it's not dh friends business haha

by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:32 PM

I put other becuase we usually do it once a week but not always. works for us.

by Gold Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:35 PM
Too much? What? Will you get oversexed? Would the symptoms include lethargy, loss of sleep, muscle soreness? Lmao!!
Sure there's above average but too much, no!
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by Platinum Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:49 PM

I put other for now because I'm 37 weeks and so uncomfortable with myself that I don't even want it right 

by Movin' on up on Dec. 4, 2012 at 8:53 PM
Right now 3-4 because we dont see each other everyday but if we did definately almost everyday
Then i would change it to 5-6 x's a wk and some weeks probably more with quickies.
I've always had a high sex drive and so does he and we laugh that we are the same in that criteria, and if we were together more, we know we would be doing it more often.
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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 9:00 PM
5-6 when im not being visited by af of course
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by on Dec. 4, 2012 at 9:02 PM
Before I got pregnant it was twice a day. Now I'm 8 months pregnant we are good if we do it once a week
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