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Married a man 32 years older than her

Posted by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:44 AM
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Do you find it disturbing, odd, dysfunctional or fine, okay, whatever that a woman is 30 yrs old married to a 62 yr old man. They are also trying to conceive. What do you think? 

My first thought is, shouldn't she be worried that her and the child will out live him by many years. When the child is 10 he will be in his seventies. That would worry me. 

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by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:44 AM
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Schleetle
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:44 AM
I think it's odd, but I wouldn't say anything.
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sissyboogs
by Katie on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:45 AM
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Honestly? My first thought is that he must have money, and she's a gold-digger...

StoneColdKiller
by Platinum Member on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:46 AM
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I think it's odd but love is crazy lol
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black.eyeliner
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:49 AM
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My sister did this. Her kids are now 2 & 5. Their father almost died last year. She asked me once what I thought. I told her I was raised better than to argue with her. She was furious. Oh well. I know she just wants attention.
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got2monsters
by Bronze Member on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:49 AM



Quoting sissyboogs:

Honestly? My first thought is that he must have money, and she's a gold-digger...


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rayroe2
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:51 AM

to each their own, I don't agree with it and think that is crossing the line.

Due9
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:52 AM

Has she ever thought about what will happen when he dies? She will have two young kids to raise alone. 

Quoting black.eyeliner:

My sister did this. Her kids are now 2 & 5. Their father almost died last year. She asked me once what I thought. I told her I was raised better than to argue with her. She was furious. Oh well. I know she just wants attention.


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black.eyeliner
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:55 AM
No idea. I know I thought it often. Daniel and I have considered that we may have to take them in one day.

Quoting Due9:

Has she ever thought about what will happen when he dies? She will have two young kids to raise alone. 

Quoting black.eyeliner:

My sister did this. Her kids are now 2 & 5. Their father almost died last year. She asked me once what I thought. I told her I was raised better than to argue with her. She was furious. Oh well. I know she just wants attention.


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Due9
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 12:56 AM

Is her husband in bad health still? 

Quoting black.eyeliner:

No idea. I know I thought it often. Daniel and I have considered that we may have to take them in one day.

Quoting Due9:

Has she ever thought about what will happen when he dies? She will have two young kids to raise alone. 

Quoting black.eyeliner:

My sister did this. Her kids are now 2 & 5. Their father almost died last year. She asked me once what I thought. I told her I was raised better than to argue with her. She was furious. Oh well. I know she just wants attention.



juggling

kansasmom1978
by on Dec. 7, 2012 at 1:01 AM
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Not my place to judge. They are both consenting adults. No ones business

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