I would like to try and understand why the gfs of the BD (bio dad) think they can control and take over things? My oldest daughter lives with her father (not my choice and I am fighting it) and his gf is interfering with everything. The gf who I call many choice words (never to her face) has been trying to control my daughter who is 7 and been doing anything she can to try and keep me out of her life. This gf has for the past 2 nights taken the phone from my daughter and hung up and shut the phone off. I only have 1 number to get ahold of my ex and my daughter plus its in the court order that my daughter and I have uninterrupted time to talk on the phone every night and no other "parties" are allowed to record/listen in. Well the gf violated the court order and she thinks nothing can be done to her or my ex because of it. She even started to block my family from talking to my daughter or even taking my daughter to my side's family functions. I gave well over a months notice to my ex that my sister will be picking up my daughter for Christmas eve festivities with my family since his mother only does their festivities on Christmas day, well the gf told everyone no that they will be spending that day with her family and thats that. I will be dammed if my daughter is denied time with my family who miss her (any most of my family live within an hour radius of her) to go to the gf's family. I am unable to be with my daughter as much as I want because she is in CT and I am in TX. Money is very tight right now and I am also on bed rest with my baby due in April.