I have the "contact or not to contact" post...well my mom talked to his mom and she made all kinds of excuses as to why he hasn't called in almost 5 months. Then I get a text from him today. He said he had problems and couldn't call, blah blah. Well then he called my son and said something about taking him places and didn't bother to ask if he was even getting him or not. Well I told him we needed to talk about it and I told him that he has not contacted him in almost 5 months and that he doesn't have a relationship with him. I also said that my son is unsure about seeing/going with him and that he said if he does want to see him, he wants it to be just him. His gf is coming with him for Christmas. He got mad and blamed me why he doesn't have a relationship with him saying I won't let him come to Texas ( we live in Ga) and see him, blah blah. One there is no CO and two I am not sending my son that far to someone he doesn't really know. I didn't say that, just to y'all. I told him that he needed to come to him where he knows as home. He got really pissed and said he is taking me to court in the spring for joint custody. So now I am freaking out and I decided if he wants to see him at all, he can pay to have supervised visits.
on Dec. 9, 2012 at 8:06 PM