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I'VE BEEN THROUGH HELL, AND ALMOST DIED, AND MY MOM IS MAKING UP LIES AND TALKING S**t ABOUT ME...WHY?

Posted by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 2:20 AM
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i try not to hate her.  I would LOVE to have a mother love me and I so want a mother to love.


My PTSD husband almost stabbed me to death in the kitchen in March...got off for ASSAULT..and she's going around all of a sudden saying I shoved her down ontot the floor in hall about ten years ago..?


WTH?

I know what she is talking about..I was 36, and she had me cornered in a small hallway between a restroom and bedroom in her house, hitting me in the face...bizarre!!


I grabbed her shoulder a certain way that will disable most bunt not really injure you...it hits a nerve.  (I used to teach Special Ed, and sometimes they would get physical).  WHY IS SHE SAYING BAD THINGS ABOUT A WOMAN IN MY SITUATION...ESPECIALLY  HER DAUGHTER?

I did once read on a web page for daughers of narcissistic mothers:

WE ARE TIRED OF OUR SUCCESSES BEING DISSMISSED AND OUR TRAGEDIES BECOMING FODDER FOR A DRAMA QUEEN.

That kinda sums it up, I guess..

by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 2:20 AM
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Dec. 14, 2012 at 2:31 AM

Yup unfortunately we cant choose who is our biological parents  but we can choose who we allow in our adults lives as a support system that is loving.

terpmama
by Gold Member on Dec. 14, 2012 at 2:31 AM
Hugs!
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veganistic
by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 4:35 AM
What district were you in that allowed that move?we fired a guy for that recently.
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mom2_3blessings
by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 4:40 AM
Really?! Really ... That's all your concerned about:) ha....


Quoting veganistic:

What district were you in that allowed that move?we fired a guy for that recently.


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veganistic
by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 4:44 AM
Okay. To answer OP's question: Because she's crazy and not very nice.

And now i would like to know where this move is legal in special ed.

(You see, I'm ascertaining the tree to apple distance)


Quoting mom2_3blessings:

Really?! Really ... That's all your concerned about:) ha....




Quoting veganistic:

What district were you in that allowed that move?we fired a guy for that recently.



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mom2_3blessings
by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 4:46 AM
She never said it was legal ;) lol


Quoting veganistic:

Okay. To answer OP's question: Because she's crazy and not very nice.



And now i would like to know where this move is legal in special ed.



(You see, I'm ascertaining the tree to apple distance)




Quoting mom2_3blessings:

Really?! Really ... That's all your concerned about:) ha....






Quoting veganistic:

What district were you in that allowed that move?we fired a guy for that recently.





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OrientalLily
by on Dec. 14, 2012 at 5:26 AM
Ya, my opinion is that your mother has decided she needs some attention. That, and she's crazy like my mother. I've learned to not let it phase me. It is what it is, and carry on. Sorry she's doing this to you. I can relate, trust me.
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