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step moms how would u feel

Posted by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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Ur step son comes over four times a yr. Thanksgiving, x mas, his b day and fathers day. He is 11 yrs old. He never wants to come over so u dont force it but these r d ocassions he wants to come. He is over this x mas and he he braggs about how he spends 70 $ of his hard earned money to buy his mom and his sd a special present for x mas ( he didnt get us n e thing) and then tld us how we were lucky to have him and he may not come back if he so decides
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bearsbabies
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:35 AM
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little.worthen
by Tess on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:37 AM
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I'd put him out the front door.. what a flipping brat.
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:38 AM

I have 4 adult step kids so obviously they make their own decisions.  Only one comes to see us regularly.  I would feel hurt if an 11 yr old said that to me and wonder why he felt that way.  Are the other parents influencing him causing a rift between him and his biological dad?

EmilysMom2010
by Bronze Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:40 AM
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Sometimes what the kid wants is not what's best for them. His father should have him a lot more than that.
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CABZS
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:40 AM
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I think dad needs to find a way to repair that relationship.
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babie113
by Ruby Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:42 AM
I would think he's a little brat/jerk I would be kinda glad he doesn't live with me full time if he's that much of a jerk already.
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Amybelle
by on Dec. 28, 2012 at 12:45 AM
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I think he is a sad, angry, hurting, emotional, confused 11yo who was put in a situation of losing his family to divorce and obviously needs care and lot's of counseling

bearsbabies
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 1:13 AM
His mom and dad have never been together. His ex step mom raised him from 4 months to 4yrs. I came in from 5-11


Quoting Amybelle:

I think he is a sad, angry, hurting, emotional, confused 11yo who was put in a situation of losing his family to divorce and obviously needs care and lot's of counseling


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bearsbabies
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 1:13 AM
He does jot live with us tho.
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Tammi4
by Silver Member on Dec. 28, 2012 at 1:15 AM
Kind of hard to read.
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