My DH and I are a ripe age of 24 but we have been married since 19. We work hard for the money we make but we are trying to save what little we have left over to pay some small debt and [hopefully] buy a house this year.
He was quite the partier back in college when we met and had alot of frat brothers that he partied with. He has since settled down and has worked hard as a husband. We lost our first baby and have since not gotten pregnant so there are no kids right now to worry about.
All of that aside, he had a friend in college who was alot older than his college-aged buddies who had money and always threw large parties for them. I always felt it was odd and just ignored it...it wasn't my problem anymore and we have since moved away and he doesn't party like he did back then.
However, that friend is getting married now. He has invited all of those old friends out to Vegas for his bachelor party. My husband says that he doesn't care how I feel about it, he's going regardless.
I really don't have a good feeling about it. Not only do I feel that we dont have the extra money for that to happen right now, I don't like the fact that I know how wild they can be together and the things that happen in Las Vegas aren't exactly of the purest intentions. However, I feel that he should have fun before we try again for a baby and he is still young and is a hard-worker.
Would you feel OK with your DH going if you were in my situation? I trust him, I just don't exactly trust the people he's with and what will possibly happen there. I'm tired of arguing about it and I'm not getting my point across to him. He says "any wife would let their husband go". Please help!
When he says "any wife would let their husband go" --- he said this after I told him I wasn't comfortable talking about it because I was more worried than anything and didn't like the idea. He then replied with that --- and yes, it's very rude.