**sigh** my poor sister :-( looks like we have plans for NY's after all.....
so my sisters J & L are getting together with their men and friends at L's house in saskatoon for a NY's poker party, and rocky really wanted to go.
but L told mom "no, she will just kill our buzz and we will have to babysit her"
Rocky has been very melancholy, saying she has no friends to celebrate with, no one loves her, all that stuff.
mom called me sounding very sad, and weary, she said rocky had gouged her face with her fingernails, leaving deep marks, and she is worried that rocky might be suicidal.
mom and her SO had just planned on having a quiet night at home, me and dh had the same idea.
but mom is desperate to get rocky out of the house, so it sounds like they will be driving 2 1/2 hrs to get here, so they can "party" with us.
which of course i am completely fine with.
but i am so mad at J&L. fucking assholes. less than a year ago our sister shot herself, and was lying in ICU for 2 months, another 4 months in recovery, we are so lucky she didn't die.
and now, what, not their problem? ugh!!!!!! i am so ashamed of them right now :-(