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No One Believes My Daughter Is Mine!!!

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 I just had my Daughter, Rhylee Jessa, Sept 17 (she was 6 weeks early, born 3lbs 15.4oz) but people are ALWAYS asking me who's baby and then when I tell them mine I get dirty looks!!! When I was pregnant, I would get dirty looks. Or when I walk around with her and someone sees her move they come RUNNING (literally) over and say OMG I THOUGHT YOU WERE CARRYING A DOLL. Then proceed to ask me questions like 'Are you old enough to have a baby?'  'You look like you are 12, 14, 15, 16...' Like people are really RUDE!! I was even with a friend in a store and a lady comes running over asking my friend all these questions about MY baby, I would answer and then finally my friend goes, 'you have to ask her she is her mom.' The lady goes 'OMG she is YOUR baby??' Like why is it such a shock?? She looks JUST like me...and has my nose (although now she is starting to look a lot like Daddy) Oh and I love the whole you have your baby dressed ALL in pink with a pretty bow and still get asked...'is it a boy or girl??' REALLY?? Rhylee will be 4 months I will post a picture..guess my age :)


****UPDATE*****

So I commented on my post the answer. I will be 30 in April. My Husband and I are actually a day apart (He will be 30 as well) I am also very short, 4ft 10.25in and just 96lbs. It doesn't make me so mad that people think I am really young...it's that they don't think my Daughter is mine. lol


This is when she was 12 days old :D 

Rhylee at almost 4 months old :D 

by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:09 PM

Omg You should post a pic :D lol

Quoting rlk121909:

ok im not saying this to be mean but omg you look like my husbands little brother whos 14. he wears the same glasses and has the same face shape and everything. you have bigger boobs though :p


LoveMyLos
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:11 PM
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She is too cute!
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tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:12 PM

The thing is I am really short too... 4ft 10.25in and back down to 96lbs. (Yes I get a lot of hate that I immediately went back down to my pre pregnancy weight)

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:

Your face looks like 12 to me :) I'd have to see how you carriend yourself, how tall you are, and whatnot to make a more acurate judgement. But people gonna hate, so just take it as a compliment when they think your too oyung.

People don't think my daughter in mine because we have completley different coloring.


la-cosa-nostra
by Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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You do look young but I do too and people always think my 5 yr old is my little sister. She looks exactly like me. My 2 yr old looks nothing like me. People always ask if I'm babysitting her. People are stupid.
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Uzma_mom_of_2
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 10:50 PM
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Hahaha.  Oh my, yup I'd think big sister. :)

Quoting tnkrbell860:

The thing is I am really short too... 4ft 10.25in and back down to 96lbs. (Yes I get a lot of hate that I immediately went back down to my pre pregnancy weight)

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:

Your face looks like 12 to me :) I'd have to see how you carriend yourself, how tall you are, and whatnot to make a more acurate judgement. But people gonna hate, so just take it as a compliment when they think your too oyung.

People don't think my daughter in mine because we have completley different coloring.



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rlk121909
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 11:28 PM
I don't think I can post mobile :/ its not letting me paste it

Quoting tnkrbell860:

Omg You should post a pic :D lol

Quoting rlk121909:

ok im not saying this to be mean but omg you look like my husbands little brother whos 14. he wears the same glasses and has the same face shape and everything. you have bigger boobs though :p


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tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:26 PM

Aww :(

Quoting rlk121909:

I don't think I can post mobile :/ its not letting me paste it

Quoting tnkrbell860:

Omg You should post a pic :D lol

Quoting rlk121909:

ok im not saying this to be mean but omg you look like my husbands little brother whos 14. he wears the same glasses and has the same face shape and everything. you have bigger boobs though :p



tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:28 PM

Haha...I would joke when I was pregnant saying I should have people follow me around with cameras and tell people we were filming for 16 & Pregnant lmao

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:

Hahaha.  Oh my, yup I'd think big sister. :)

Quoting tnkrbell860:

The thing is I am really short too... 4ft 10.25in and back down to 96lbs. (Yes I get a lot of hate that I immediately went back down to my pre pregnancy weight)

Quoting Uzma_mom_of_2:

Your face looks like 12 to me :) I'd have to see how you carriend yourself, how tall you are, and whatnot to make a more acurate judgement. But people gonna hate, so just take it as a compliment when they think your too oyung.

People don't think my daughter in mine because we have completley different coloring.




_WC_Mama
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:41 PM
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Just ignore them,some people like to run their mouth...People can be so rude and disrespectful these days..My children are Biracial*white/black*and I have been asked if I am their Nanny sometimes and I just laugh and say No I am their Mom and then there like Oh...

_WC_Mama
by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:42 PM
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PS:your daughter is pretty

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