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No One Believes My Daughter Is Mine!!!

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 I just had my Daughter, Rhylee Jessa, Sept 17 (she was 6 weeks early, born 3lbs 15.4oz) but people are ALWAYS asking me who's baby and then when I tell them mine I get dirty looks!!! When I was pregnant, I would get dirty looks. Or when I walk around with her and someone sees her move they come RUNNING (literally) over and say OMG I THOUGHT YOU WERE CARRYING A DOLL. Then proceed to ask me questions like 'Are you old enough to have a baby?'  'You look like you are 12, 14, 15, 16...' Like people are really RUDE!! I was even with a friend in a store and a lady comes running over asking my friend all these questions about MY baby, I would answer and then finally my friend goes, 'you have to ask her she is her mom.' The lady goes 'OMG she is YOUR baby??' Like why is it such a shock?? She looks JUST like me...and has my nose (although now she is starting to look a lot like Daddy) Oh and I love the whole you have your baby dressed ALL in pink with a pretty bow and still get asked...'is it a boy or girl??' REALLY?? Rhylee will be 4 months I will post a picture..guess my age :)


****UPDATE*****

So I commented on my post the answer. I will be 30 in April. My Husband and I are actually a day apart (He will be 30 as well) I am also very short, 4ft 10.25in and just 96lbs. It doesn't make me so mad that people think I am really young...it's that they don't think my Daughter is mine. lol


This is when she was 12 days old :D 

Rhylee at almost 4 months old :D 

by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:28 PM

You are the closest!! I will be 30 in April :D

Joeyryanmom
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:36 PM
Joeys bday is 9/21 :)
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tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:19 PM

They are gonna be bff's :) 

Quoting Joeyryanmom:

Joeys bday is 9/21 :)


dusky_rose
by Sue on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:22 PM
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Some people just aren't a good judge of age, especially if you have your hair back, like in a pony tail. I'd just ignore them.


ArisMom208
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:24 PM
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Quoting tnkrbell860:

I will be 30 in April. So will my Husband. Lol...we are actually a day apart :D

Seriously? 

No offense but theres a 17 year old in town that looks JUST like you lol.

again, no offense. 

you look a hell of a lot better than most 30 year olds ive saw


       Teenage Mommy &Wife (ProLIFE-AntiOBAMA)

                          Ariannah Kate 03-07-12

I breastfeed ANYtime, ANYwhere, and would NEVER spank

     I run a dog rescue, and have three "evil" pit bulls. 

            March 7th 2012 && September 10 2012

bebe_ju-rah
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:24 PM
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You don't look like a teenager to me. People are so rude!
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connie45
by Gold Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:30 PM
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Develop a thicker skin. You don't owe a stranger an explanation. Toss out a few politely stated snarky comebacks and you'll be fine.

MrsKoolaidPunk
by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:33 PM
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I get that all the freaking time..and "what a cute little sister you have!" -.-

Shy_Dia
by Gold Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:35 PM
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Wow. I wouldn't not have guessed 30! You look young for your age

Quoting tnkrbell860:

I will be 30 in April. So will my Husband. Lol...we are actually a day apart :D

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skittlebeans88
by Traci on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:36 PM
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Your dd is beautiful!
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