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No One Believes My Daughter Is Mine!!!

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 I just had my Daughter, Rhylee Jessa, Sept 17 (she was 6 weeks early, born 3lbs 15.4oz) but people are ALWAYS asking me who's baby and then when I tell them mine I get dirty looks!!! When I was pregnant, I would get dirty looks. Or when I walk around with her and someone sees her move they come RUNNING (literally) over and say OMG I THOUGHT YOU WERE CARRYING A DOLL. Then proceed to ask me questions like 'Are you old enough to have a baby?'  'You look like you are 12, 14, 15, 16...' Like people are really RUDE!! I was even with a friend in a store and a lady comes running over asking my friend all these questions about MY baby, I would answer and then finally my friend goes, 'you have to ask her she is her mom.' The lady goes 'OMG she is YOUR baby??' Like why is it such a shock?? She looks JUST like me...and has my nose (although now she is starting to look a lot like Daddy) Oh and I love the whole you have your baby dressed ALL in pink with a pretty bow and still get asked...'is it a boy or girl??' REALLY?? Rhylee will be 4 months I will post a picture..guess my age :)


****UPDATE*****

So I commented on my post the answer. I will be 30 in April. My Husband and I are actually a day apart (He will be 30 as well) I am also very short, 4ft 10.25in and just 96lbs. It doesn't make me so mad that people think I am really young...it's that they don't think my Daughter is mine. lol


This is when she was 12 days old :D 

Rhylee at almost 4 months old :D 

by on Jan. 2, 2013 at 9:12 PM
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Loopy3
by Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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Your looking at this all wrong, take it as a compliment.

Quoting tnkrbell860:

I will be 30 in April. So will my Husband. Lol...we are actually a day apart :D


A.J.s_mommy
by Ruby Member on Jan. 2, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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How much does she weigh now? She looks like she's a good size. You look tiny, but not young.
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elizabooks
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:15 AM
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Havent read the replies yet, but between 30 & 35?
Small babies are like large ones or ones with unusual coloring ( mine had ice blond curly hair & gray eyes) everyone is drawn tothe different.
As for looking young and getting nasty looks when pregnant ....as I was told my grandmother was carded at the bar for my mother's batchelorette. As my mom was 31 that put my grandma at 57. So have fun with it.
angelgirl0225
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:29 AM
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You look great don't worry about others. As for the asking about the gender when you can clearly tell based on the clothing. I hate it too. With my daughter, she was in a pretty pink dress, all girly and I got asked how old my little man was..... I was like SHE is 4 months. SHE loves her pink dress, can't you tell. Then walked away.Lol

rlk121909
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:35 AM
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ok im not saying this to be mean but omg you look like my husbands little brother whos 14. he wears the same glasses and has the same face shape and everything. you have bigger boobs though :p

WendyJR
by Gold Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:38 AM
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I would have said 24 you look great! And your dd is adorable.

I had a bright pink outfit and blanket on dd when she was little and someone said "what a cute boy." People are clueless sometimes. I just smiled and said thanks.


Quoting tnkrbell860:

I will be 30 in April. So will my Husband. Lol...we are actually a day apart :D

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Uzma_mom_of_2
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 2:09 AM
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Your face looks like 12 to me :) I'd have to see how you carriend yourself, how tall you are, and whatnot to make a more acurate judgement. But people gonna hate, so just take it as a compliment when they think your too oyung.

People don't think my daughter in mine because we have completley different coloring.

amc103
by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 2:23 AM
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You dont look THAT young! Geeze! People can be so rude! I would have guessed 28. You're just tiny! There's a difference! :-) Congrats on your beautiful daughter! 

tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:03 PM

They do say everyone has a twin :D And Thank you, no offense taken. I love that people think I look really young. I just hate that they don't think my Daughter is mine

Quoting ArisMom208:


Quoting tnkrbell860:

I will be 30 in April. So will my Husband. Lol...we are actually a day apart :D

Seriously? 

No offense but theres a 17 year old in town that looks JUST like you lol.

again, no offense. 

you look a hell of a lot better than most 30 year olds ive saw


tnkrbell860
by Bronze Member on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:07 PM

She goes back to the Dr for her 4 month checkup on the 17th. She was 7lbs 12oz at her last appt :D She is about 3 times the size when she was born now.

Quoting A.J.s_mommy:

How much does she weigh now? She looks like she's a good size. You look tiny, but not young.


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