Dh doesn't care and thinks the kids would have a great time. What do you think? Personally I'd rather only go if dh could come too.

Personally I don't thinl its a big deal...

Quoting ebbierowe:
Why don't you just meet someplace that isn't his house. Or just have his kid come to your house. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it.
Personally I don't thinl its a big deal...

I think it is fine. He is friends with you both and the children like to play together so no big deal.

Quoting frndlyfn:I think it is fine. He is friends with you both and the children like to play together so no big deal.

I have crohn's disease and go places all the time, but that is neither here nor there.
If he wants the kids to play then he can drop his son at his place or you can drop your kids there, if you are uncomfortable.
how long as he been diagnosed? is his crohn's not under control? I only ask because I have had it for over 20 years and the only times I didn't go places was when I was in pain from a flare up. but being that I am a mommy maybe that made it it different
Quoting norahsmommy:
He would never want to play anywhere buy his house. He has crohns disease and wants to be near a bathroom at all times, just in case.
Quoting ebbierowe:
Why don't you just meet someplace that isn't his house. Or just have his kid come to your house. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it.
Personally I don't thinl its a big deal...

It would be fine in my marriage, but everyone's is different. My take is if your dh is fine with it (and it sounds like he is) then I don't see the big deal. Our parents are old-fashioned, it's ok. But it doesn't mean you have to be, if you and dh are on the same page.


Quoting norahsmommy:
He would never want to play anywhere buy his house. He has crohns disease and wants to be near a bathroom at all times, just in case.
Quoting ebbierowe:
Why don't you just meet someplace that isn't his house. Or just have his kid come to your house. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it.
Personally I don't thinl its a big deal...

I think it is weird that you are concerned about this. What is wrong with a man and a woman letting their kids have a playdate? You wouldn't even think twice if it was another woman asking, would you?
- norahsmommy
on Jan. 4, 2013 at 12:21 PM