So, my DH and I had just *finally* agreed to TTC. I had been waiting for about 2 years (our child is almost 4 years old).
He's always been very careful to prevent pregnancy, and we had been discussing it lately, and he mentioned he'd like me to lose a certain amount of weight first if I would be attempting a homebirth this time. Fine, I agreed with him.
I still haven't lost the weight that I agreed I should probably lose pre-pregnancy. A few days ago, he stopped preventing (right at the end of my ovulatory time, I'm pretty sure).
Today I was checking his work email from the iPad and it totally backfired on me.
He told his work friend about how stressed out and depressed he is because of all the changes going on at their work, and then mentioned:
Plus, I'm thinking we'll probably have another kid by the end of the year. :'(
I don't know what to think. :( I'm guessing it would be wise for me to be cautious and prevent pregnancy in the future.
I was really, really hoping that he would for once be one of those dads who gets so excited about the idea of having another child. That's just not him. *shrug*. :-/