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Am I crazy?

Posted by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 1:41 AM
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Ok so my hunny and I have been together almost 5 years and we have 2 girls together. He's never done anything to make me doubt him in anyway. He works hard and comes home. However his friend invited him to a strip club and he wants to go. I don't really mind cuz I trust him I know he wouldn't do anything I think he mostly wants to go cuz his friend talks crap and says that I won't let him go so I think he just wants to shut him up so I don't mind if he goes am I crazy?
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avasmama1375
by Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 2:05 AM
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No if u trust him y not let him as long it's it's not a regular thing
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shyone_91786
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 2:10 AM

Nope sounds like what you said he only wants to go to shut his friend up. If it's only once or once in a while then who cares you should offer to go and see what they say lol

Kenre
by Ruby Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 2:12 AM
Take it from someone who was cheated on. Asking to go to the strip club is innocent. I would let him go, too.
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frndlyfn
by Emerald Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 2:12 AM
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Why is it crazy to trust your guy to behave while surrounded by his friends?    I think it would be fun for him to get out.

Marimaru
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 3:56 AM

Wouldn't bug me.

coolmommy2x
by Ruby Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 8:30 AM
If you trust him, why is it crazy?
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NDADanceMom
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 9:19 AM
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I think your crazy for being with a man that cant say, "im not interested in strip clubs, it has nothing to do with my girlfriend."

My husband has been teased because he doesnt like strippers.  Hes a grown man and isnt pressured or bullied into going just to "shut someone up".  He rightfully so thinks these women are being exploited. He is attracted to quick wit, intelligence and other attributes that are not on display on a pole. 

dusky_rose
by Sue on Jan. 5, 2013 at 11:40 PM

It doesn't sound crazy to me.


Momyplease
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:00 AM
I wouldnt worry about it if it doesnt bother you
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Mommy2OneBoy621
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:01 AM

I don't think you're crazy at all! Especially if you are secure in your relationship and trust him.

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